Search Results: he likes me as more than a friend

How do I control myself and not embarrasse myself around this really cool guy?

I really like this guy i met at a party recently. He's just got this really cool vibe and everyone wants to be around him. As soon as I walked into party he greeted me and asked me to sit with him and his friends which...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

In the end there is no ideal love story right?

I'm find it amazing how everyone has their own love story with different challenges or struggles and it's not the typical ideal one. I've heard of a love story that started out from a dare but they caught feelings, my...

SarahS98

Xper 6 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

What should I do?

had a friend; she was more than that to me. I loved her a lot. She was my best friend for three years, then we had a fight because she seemed careless sometimes and didn't put in any effort. However, I didn't have a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

My boyfriend won’t get rid of a tattoo he has of his ex?

My ex and I recently got back together we broke up 2 years ago because he was still involved with his child’s mother, I caught him texting other women and he asked me to get a abortion because he wasn’t ready for another...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Am I in the wrong for trying to be grown up in 30 years old and he’s only 15?

Hey I need some advice so o have a brother who’s only 15 and I’m 30 so I been past his age and I know what it is like to be a teenager but when I was his age we had rules in the house. Like if I was rude or even spoke out...

ZainabAli123

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

Is selflessness any reasonable when dating someone?

I really like her for her joyful manner and her autonomous way of life. Like she's far more independent than other women seem to be at college. Now what got me hooked was her looks to be honest. She reminds me of my ex...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

Relationships

Are we codependent or does he like me in that way?

I'm concerned with my guy friend because of how invested he is in making me feel well. I understand that he cares about me but there are signs that I cannot miss because it's been two months of him playing the caretaker...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

Can love be born out of an agreement, a bargain?

Well we do like each other but we've agreed to participate in this agreement. It's more like a bargain where I'm paying him (my parents are going to help out with money too) to do me a huge favor. In return, my gratitude...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Does she want to be friends?

A couple months ago my ex unblocked my number and we started slowly talking and we just recently started following each other on social media and even sending each other reels. A couple weeks ago I asked her where our...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Should I propose her to kiss?

A colleague of mine (girl) told me that she would like to kiss someone spontaneously. Should I propose her to do it together? I mention that she likes me as more than a friend.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Do you tend to value men or women's opinions more? Why?

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's all ears and ready to take the...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's

Anyways, it made me question whose opinions I tend to value? I am very stubborn and not many people can get through to me. I can only think of one girl who has just really gotten through to me but I guess I notice that it’s mostly been guys, thus I value men’s opinions more.

I don't know if my guy simply values the male view more because he’s so insecure and intimidated by other men, which he says all the time. But I value the guys perspective because I want to know how to captivate, communicate with, and better understand the gender that I’m attracted to.

Some may call that a “pick me” but I don’t consider it the same thing. I feel pick me’s seek validation while I more so want advice and guidance. Who better to understand a guy I’m into than a guy himself?

If I wanted advice on how to improve my appearance, dress style or to better control my emotions, then I’d seek a woman’s advice since we better understand one another’s insecurities and reactions. I rarely ask other women for advice on guys though because so many take it as competition to go after that same guy. Its so weird. Girlcode always seems to go out the window.

Another thing could be that I grew up looking up to my grandpa more than anyone else. I also got along best with my male cousin and my uncle. My friends have always been 90% guys. Like, my mom held it down for a bit but her inconsistent behavior and broken promises really got to me. So I stopped looking up to her. Maybe she, my grandma and a bunch of flaky female friends and cousins ruined it for other women too.

Some men have wronged me but never as many men as women. I guess same can be said for my boyfriend since he feels more women have wronged him yet all I ever see these days is men treating him badly. #FeelFreeToList

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Guy's Behavior

Does Guy Friend have feelings?

Hi I known guy at work about 6 years, in the past few years, things went on etc, kissing fondling etc and his girlfriend saw messages, well fast forward 3 years. I am now single almost and he still with his girlfriend....

Abbie81

Xper 4 Age: 44

Health & Fitness

Have you ever experienced a Kuchisabishii?

Say it with me Coochi-Sab-Beeshee Not 100 on that pronunciation but it's fun to say really fast on repeat will a friend drops a fat beat. Means eating not because you are hungry, but because your mouth is lonely. Or...

Lottydotty

Xper 5 Age: 29

Relationships

Guy friend visited me in the hospital and I have mixed feelings now?

Lately, my guy friend visited me in the hospital and I feel mixed feelings but mostly happy that he is emotionally supporting me. On the day I got admitted, I messaged him and he was very caring and supportive. He also...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Society & Politics

What Were School Fights Like During Your Time?

Back when I was in school fights were treated as a special occasion with a set of "rituals" that took place that everyone adhered to whenever something like this happened. I always wondered how things got this way...

Tokthr

Xper 2 Age: 27

Dating

Girls, I'm dating this mixed guy and my family will not like that?

I'm brown (Indian), and he is mixed white and brown. He's as tall and strong, and I've been dating him for five weeks. My family won't like him because he is mixed. When I go out with friends I secretly ask him to come...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Is this a sign I will always be a loner?

I have tried numerous times to put myself out there to make friends, and while people do talk to me, nothing ever comes about in terms of friendships. Even more so now that I am a mum and I have no one in my life apart...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Should I believe what this psychic told me about her?

I have a close friend. We share a deep emotional bond. We have “flirted” before but casually and my friend has told me she’s flirted with friends when she lived in her hometown. We’re both bi girls and we’ve drunkenly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I'm beginning to feel, that I might not be fit for a romantic relationship as I'll feel like a victim? Please advice me?

Please advice me on how to overcome this. I've always loved myself more than anything while growing up, not is a condescending way. I look after myself in all aspects very well. Cherished my friends and family. Loved to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why do people tolerate too much as long as it's not infidelity (there are other things just as bad or worse than cheating)?

While infidelity is a serious violation of trust and takes over the whole relationship, what about if your partner does these other things: - Disrespectful towards your friends and family... bullies other people too - In...

Anonymous

(30-35)