Search Results: hurt in relationships

Boyfriend Makes Me Feel Insecure, Is This Love?

This is a long one so strap in. I'm 22, a black female when I first met my boyfriend (30 white male) was the heaviest I've ever been 250lbs I am now 23 sitting at 130 and 5'5. We've been together for about 2 years I lost...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What should I do when the guy I'm dating feels too much for me?

I don't know why I'm feeling this way when he does give me space. Before he messages during the day and calls at night so at that time, i felt suffocated and he got mad at me and unsent some messages. So, after a sporadic...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

How do I get a socially awkward friend to get out of her shell and start dating again?

My friend has a lot of good qualities about her. She’s kind hearted, she’s a good christian (as in she accepts everyone for who they are but at the same time isn’t judgy or strict), she’s smart and very pretty (she turns...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would my ex text me on WhatsApp that he miss me and wants me back and also when I back searched through a friend, why he was in bumble too?

Should I go back to him? So we were together for 2 years in a relationship where he had proposed me on 3rd date. Suddenly he uncommitted to me after 1.5 years of our relationship and stopped having sex with me too. And...

sadstrawberry

Xper 5 Age: 29

I made my boyfriend cry because he lacks love from me?

He was crying to me last night about how he feels very little love from me. I have been going through a lot of emotional stuff too and have been withdrawn. He tried to comfort me and then he also cried because he didn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

It wasn’t supposed to end with a breakup, what happened?

Me and my boyfriend were dating 5 months, it was our first relationship after being single a year. Everything was going amazing, he was kind and patient, he was foreshadowing marriage and kids since the beginning. But we...

queenie555

Xper 2 Age: 27

Advice on dating a guy at work?

This guy I met at work 3 months ago was going great we became friends then turned into friends with benefits and now feelings are involved. He confronted and showed his feeling first it was noticeable didn’t have to ask...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you agree my mum was being really cruel after my break up recently?

It's been less than a week since my boyfriend and zi broke up. A couple of weeks ago my mum was saying all positive things about him to my sister. Now, after breaking up, she is saying how I need to find a man with this...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

In a relationship or marriage, who would get hurt the most if they discover they will never have kids of their own?

Assuming both parties are in a serious relationship or marriage and want to form a family, who would get hurt the most if they're infertile? - A woman that's still within her good fertile years or even young, finding out...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Assuming both parties are in a serious relationship or marriage and want to form a family, who would get hurt the most if they're infertile? - A woman that's still within her good

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Why is a guy friend too emotionally attach with me?

Lately, my guy friend has been sending me messages asking me how i am, letting me know what his plans are without me asking and consulting me about things but he noticed I had become nonresponsive. At first, he was...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

What are some of your deal breakers in a relationship?

What i mean by deal breakers, Not items that are red flags, But behaviors that will either make you break up instantly, or make you Issue a stern warning that if said behavior ever happens again the relationship is over....

worldscolide

Master Age: 43

Other

Do we have any people on this website who are sensitive and get your feelings hurt when someone says or does something hurtful to you?

Some people can just let it roll off their backs. But not me. When someone hurts my feelings I take it to heart and can feel the hurt deep inside of me. I might say that I am a straight shooter, but what that means is I...

sage2021

Master Age: 71

Whould they regret hurting us?

If you are the sacrificial person in the relationship Always supportive, loyal, loving and patient Then he left you for someone else Who should feel the loss? He or you !, who is the loser and regrets it later?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Women what would you do or say to help assure you are a good loyal woman that stays committed to your spouse, and would treat them right?

Let's say your loving and caring boyfriend or husband has been cheated on, used, and lied to by previous partners he tries not to let it bother him and how he thinks of you but naturally like anyone thats gone through...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I am depressed. And I cannot feel for my relationship. What do I do?

Depression has always followed. It was going to happen. I come from a fucked up family where love and affection is inconsistent and confusing. I've always struggled emotionally but managed to keep going. im at a point...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, if a guy is kind of abusive in a relationship, is it better for her if he leaves or if she does the step of letting him go?

She might have had her reasons why she broke up with him. But when she said (she told this story another guy by the way) that the next day she didn't feel better, I wondered what that guy did that made her break up with...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

He’s stopped replying to my texts?

I’ll try and cut a long story short. I started working at my current employment about 3 years ago. One colleague in particular I got on really well with, however, he’s lovely to everyone. We had a flirty relationship and...

Anonymous

(18-24)