Women what would you do or say to help assure you are a good loyal woman that stays committed to your spouse, and would treat them right?

[Anonymous]

Let's say your loving and caring boyfriend or husband has been cheated on, used, and lied to by previous partners he tries not to let it bother him and how he thinks of you but naturally like anyone thats gone through that its hard to trust after that and believe other wise in a new partner. So what would you say or do to reassure him that you really love him and won't cheat, use, or hurt him in anyway?

For guys looking for a woman to be with for a long lasting relationship, I'd say this can help them a lot if they are looking for signs the woman they are talking with is committed, and a actually caring woman.

[Finchie40]

Honestly that wouldn’t be her job to reassure him , if he can’t trust her and has doubts about her? He shouldn’t be pursuing a relationship with her period if he feels that way about her , How can someone honestly be happy with someone , if they feel insecure about that someone? If someone is going to cheat? They are going to cheat , there is no stopping someone from cheating, if it’s their intentions to cheat. Cheating is a selfish act , we can’t force anyone to love us , all we can do is treat someone the same way we want to be treated in return , if they do not treat you the same way you treat them , than you are best to walk away from that person and move on with your life , and eventually you might meet someone that treats you the same way you treat them.

[Account]

I am not responsible for his trauma nor am I responsible to heal him in any way in order to persuade him that I wouldn't do that crap.

[Account]

No one has ever done it for me. Noone has reassured me in a way in order to stop being worried. Therefore, I wouldn't do it for anyone either.

[CrabCakes11]

Dealing with his trauma is his responsibility

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, the dance of trust and vulnerability, it’s a delicate one. For women wanting to reassure their man, it's all about consistency and open communication. Lovebombing him with words is tempting, but actions? They speak volumes. Be his calm in the storm of past betrayals. Show him through the mundane moments how reliable and different you are – answer texts, share your feelings, introduce him to your world. Transparency is key; let him see through you like your favorite glass of wine. And most importantly, patience. Healing takes time, and that’s okay. Sprinkle in some humor, a dash of understanding, and loads of your genuine, sparkling self. That's how you build a castle of trust, brick by brick. Remember, it’s about turning 'I'm scared' into 'I'm scarred but safe with you.' Love, it’s an art and you, my dear, can be the greatest artist in his heart.

[EmmaMary]

I certainly wouldn't be wasting my time... Sorry.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be with someone that insecure to start with.

[LazerBean]

Tbh I would not be with someone that damaged