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Hey everyone, I’m looking for your input and advice. ****not complaining, I just need help understanding bc I’m a dumb cis straight white male****

Am I leading these women on somehow?

I went through a breakup in September, with 0 bad terms between us, she was way out of my league both physically and as a human. I was and still am deeply in love with her, and I never shut the fuck up about her to people while I was with her (almost 2 years). We’re still super close.

about me (just trust that my self assessment is true for this exercise): I’m a lot of fun, around 30 years old, attractive but not active, so I have a dad bod but I’m really fucking funny and charismatic. I have a lot of beautiful platonic and meaningful female friendships that are strictly friendships. I’m a sweet heart and people are generally protective of me, because I’m depressed and having a hard time and they all love me more than I do. Aka, women see that and feel safe around me.

at the same time, I have a dad bod, my life is a mess right now, I’m openly still in love with my girlfriend, I communicate that “I’m not ready to date anyone right now.” I’m about to start attending both NA and AA meetings. I feel like somehow, me being at the lowest point in my life, is somehow attracting all these beautiful women who are initiating conversations with me and asking me to hang out.

I haven’t slept with anyone since my ex because I’m not ready for that, it would make me too sad. But, I’m a total flirt.
Anyway, one of my gal pals said that my behavior is confusing, because I’m vulnerable and texting with them, and still flirty. But I’m just thinking like, “surely my life is so shitty right now that no woman wants any part of the mess that I am right now.”

so why do you think I’m getting this new attention?

Does anyone feel the same? What can be done? Thanks

This is my own quote I said in response to all the simps in my last question, who "don't see a problem" with thots and E-whores on sites like OnlyFans, as well as other scammers, and criminals and scumbags in society.

Pathetic, PATHETIC men (in their 30s and 40s, mind you) saying sh*t like "If it's easy and you can make money doing it, why not do it?" and "blame Capitalism." I also told them by their own logic, I should shoot them in the face and rob them cause "it's easy, so why not do it?" I mean, do I really have to explain to "adults" why selfishness and laziness are not good traits to have?

I get so many people nowadays have no personal code of ethics, or morals, self-respect, or adult responsibilities. But seeing so many pathetic simp men, thots, and overall scumbags, is depressing. So I gave that quote as an easy way to sum up how I feel.

I know this post is kind of a half rant, but I want to know your take on this quote of mine.