Husband wants to divorce me and I feel like I have a trauma bond. I’m heartbroken. He said he didn’t love me or like me anymore. How can I let go and heal? Al I do is cry and feel like I will never move on bc he will always be a part of my life. Can’t even go no contact with a baby. The thought of him that with another women makes me depressed and sick.
Honestly time heals all. I would say just look after your baby stop hounding him or begging him to come back and start looking after yourself. As youve a child stay in touch but only on matters that relate to the child, just send texts rather than phonecalls and keep it strictly about the child showing no intrest in him or his life. Eat right, go to the gym, hang out with friends, dress well, go to church etc when and if you can. Work on yourself but don't rush into other relationships or hookups. Try to get back to the girl you were b4 you met him. Maybe he will start to see the value of you and your family and if he doesn't that's his loss.
I know plenty of guys who were the same with a good woman and couldn't take the pressure of being a family man thinking the grass was greener on the otherside but regretted it a few years later.
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Damn.
Pretty fucked situation
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