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For instance he missed a turn driving in the car two days ago and wouldn't shut up about it. Same thing with the car show a month ago. He didn't go and is mad at himself for not going.

He stomps around like a kid and acts like I stopped him from going. He says I am the one overreacting and making a big deal. But he's the one yelling and talking about it. I completely shut down and stay away from him when he's like this.

He regrets only have a masters and not finishing his doctorate. His parents will pay for it. But he doesn't want to go back because he's forty. I totally support him going back.

He is trying to get me to quit doing the community garden. Because it's 15 twenty minutes away. He keeps saying it's not safe there. It's not in a great neighborhood. I feel safe there. I am growing mini pumpkins and a few other things. We don't have a yard. I have plants in my office and balcony. But that's it.

I wish he would go to marriage counseling. But he won't. What are your thoughts?

Should I just move on?

I was posting stories about how a guy coerced me and then this guy online tried to get close to me in a friendly way then we exchanged pics and he was like OMG you’re my future wife. And he started asking me if I wanted to have this basically D/s relationship with him where he tells me what to eat and wear all the time. Now I agreed and I like being under someone but I know now that I can’t just submit to any old Joe.

So at the time he was talking about how I’m going to be his wife and he soon flew from Chicago to my state. Thinking back I’m like why would he pay for a plane ticket just to lie, pump and dump me when he can easily do the same in his own state. It’s weird.

That’s why I’m questioning what the hell was this all about?

Anyway, we were together for a few days then he flew back to Chicago. He was still talking about how I was going to go to Chicago and move in with him and get married. I started asking about like ‘so when are you going to tell your family about me’ because I didn’t realize he hadn’t… and he said he can’t tell his mom yet because she wouldn’t understand our D/s relationship. I was like ok… but I started getting annoyed because be was being “too busy” (now I know that’s a fake ass excuse), he immediately blocked me EVERYWHERE even on the website we met LOL, and that was a year ago.

What was his whole point? Why did he do all that stuff?