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I’ve been dating a guy a few months, seeing each other every 2nd day, and be called me daily. We hung out and had a great time and I know he was very into me.

he’s due to go away to another country tomorrow for a month with work. I last saw him 4 days ago, we hung out, he told me he will miss me and we spoke about our future etc.

Here’s where I think the problem is. I left my phone at his, when I went to collect it everything was fine. He messaged me later that night, saying he wishes I was beside him and that he can’t wait to see me the next night. Anyways, when I got my phone back, I noticed that I had received messages from guys I was friends with telling me I looked good etc. I had uploaded a new profile pic, and they had pmd me. Even though my phone was locked, the messages pop up briefly.

he didn’t message the day after, and in 4 days he has sent me 1 message (usually he would call and text daily). I sent him a couple of messages asking was everything ok as he was quite (read it but didn’t reply) sent him a follow up one asking if we were still going out that night (silence). I was wanting to meet up with him and find out did he see the messages from the guys who pmd me and reassure him.

I was with my friend yesterday, and was showing her the messages. She unfollowed him and unfriended him on everything saying he’s a user etc. I’m so pissed off with her. I then sent him a friend and follow request which he didn’t accept, and sent him a further message (as we are no longer friends, I can’t see if he read them).

I really really like and respect this guy, and I only have eyes for him. I’ve sent him 4 messages in total which he didn’t respond to (the last one wishing him a good trip and if we could speak). The whole thing is a misunderstanding

Might I add, he hasn’t blocked me off anything when I sent those messages.

the questing is, what will I do? And will be back in touch? What do I do to make it right again?