Why do you think she really blowed me off?

[Anonymous]

There was a girl who liked me. Her friends kept telling me that she likes me for months. We became friends and after some time we got closer. Every time we met we hugged, kissed on a cheek. Then came my birthday party and I asked her out and she said yes and later that night we kissed like romantically (like couple dont how to say it). The next few weeks we didn't meet because always one of us was busy or on holiday but mostly she was the one busy. About a month after first kiss we kissed again. A week later her friends started telling me that she is complicated, they’re confused of her and maybe i should give up on her and that they know I am a right guy for her but depends if she knows it. So i asked her if she wants to go out and she said yes. So we went finally. I had a good feeling about the date, wewent for a walk we talked about some mutual friends latest events, school, her dream job. But then I texted her if she’d go out again and she replied she does’t know that she is busy now and school year starts (she is in boarding school). Then we met on the party and I wanted to know how things are between us and she said that it is nothing against me but she doesn’t want relationship now. Then I asked her friends like what happened they said it is just how she is, that she doesn’t know what she really wants, she is complicated and that she finds other boys attractive as well. Then one her friend said that she said that on the date I was nervous and then we didn’t have much to say. But I don’t know. Maybe there were some weaker parts but there was no awkward silences, we laughed a bit and I didn’t have the same feeling after the date. On the date we got back to meeting point from where she was supposed to gome and when we got there we were still talking for some time before we said hi. But I don’t know, it was weird even before the date like she doesn't want to go. I would say kisses were fine especilly first one and both were quite long.

[Guy13]

For Months. Ask her out in two weeks at latest or forget about her