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I guess being desperate is good as a man. Why is it that society puts men down for trying?

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I guess being desperate is good as a man. Why is it that society puts men down for trying?

this is the hugest reason why im single for the last 8 years. the last girlfriend i had we lasted for three years but it was just pure luck. She showed interest in me hardcore so it was the only way i asked her out. I was always afraid to ask girls out because i was afraid to come off as desperate or creepy. i noticed that the guys who are not trying to come off as desperate are the ones who are single. but the guys who are constantly asking girls out they are persistent, and don't give up and are always in a relationship.

yet women call this men creepy cuz they get asked out in the most random situations. My sister got asked out in front of my family, by random friends who didn't give a dam on what was the outcome. Even a car sales men asked my sister out in front of me and my dad when she got her first car. i was like wth. he was on the clock working. we could of complained with the dealership but my sister didn't seem to care. My sister husband came and knocked on the door several times to ask her out. she rejected him a couple of times and he didn't give up that easily.

At the time i was like "what a loser and a serious creeper" right. but wait my sister in the end got in a relationship with him. at the time i didn't understand what was happening. In highschool, i would see all this desperate dudes giving these random women flowers begging them to go out with them but then i found out that all this desperate dudes where all with kids and married LATER ON IN LIFE.

im 30 years old now and found out too late. i started to follow that method where i was persistent in texting girls even tho they weren't texting back in the first few messages but eventually they started responding.

Very minimal girls told me to leave them alone and that was no Biggy i left those alone. So, i kept getting rejected but I never gave up in texting them and I kept asking them out. as long as they were not telling me i was not harassing them or to leave them alone, i just kept going. Not until they started to agree in going out. One girl i sent out like 20 messages in a course of three months with no response from her. She later on sent me a message to go and bang her at the house. i was laughing in disbelief on what i was witnessing so, i went. Then later I went on two dates with two girls after not giving up on asking them out. One, i had to ask out like 5 times until she agreed. i just could not believe my eyes and all this time I was put in a box to be afraid and not come off as desperate. this was the first time i went on real dates after being single.

i hate society for this. It seem like society wants to control men and put them in a box. they make it seem like asking women out and texting them consistently is creepy and desperate which in reality this are the dudes who win. . the guys who consistently ask women out but never give up, who dont care what others think of them. who are not afraid of rejection. those are the winners. i finally started to get results after seeing what's really happening.

I guess being desperate is good as a man. Why is it that society puts men down for trying?
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