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I’m turning 25 in few months & been having baby fever. I get jelaous seeing girls with baby happy. I can’t stop thinking of babies. I’m not ready this year have baby but maybe mid to end next year be pregnant and have baby born by age 26 . I’m 26 end next year. I’m not financially stable rn, my business has no sales at moment, I’m barley trying get savings, have $200 saved rn and want $5,000 saved by December. Then next year save even more so I can use it for my baby buy everything he or she will need. I’ve been feeling depressed empty in life I live alone, I’ve been feeling like a loser as I have no special baby of my own. I see women pregnant or with guy and baby and I wonder what makes them deserve a baby? What makes them deserve get pregnant by a guy and I don’t deserve get Pregnant by a guy? Like how is the women so special n amazing to be able get huge belly n have so much sex so many times with boyfriend to get baby. Why im not worthy have this too? Im not a party girl, I want move to a big condo apartment , and raise my baby there in our blissful home. I feel my purpose is have baby not just be stupid women living alone empty working that’s it. My life is to have my own family 😔& true happiness with my own new family.

Probably we all heard of one-child policy in China that was stopped at 2016. Personally, I recall hearing about it as child and suprised that people complied _because it really does unpleasant being told what to do for one's natural right. Having not known much as little girl I just felt chills over some having to enter jail for having a child.

Now, as grownup, I want to spat at Chinese government for controlling women's wombs.

They blamed decreasing birth rate back in the late 40s in the last century on women's education.

An unknown person on Weibo said infamously "So, no more foot-binding but brain-binding now?" The dude hit the bullseye! Why blame it on women?

Chinese government restricted reproductive rights by one-child policy, forced contraception, abortion and ligation particularly in the 80s and 90s.

Forced sizing of possessions for resisting the one-child policy was just plain tyranny.

China is a very toxic environment to grow up in, men are either giant babies or shivering quails (some exception are for the lucky ones) and women don't gets to shine fully with the restrictions.

Patriotism is admirable but loving your country when it only abused them is clearly manipulation higher-ups pulled or Chinese cultural teaching having to be separated from modern education.

So Chinese people, specifically women deserves better than a country that's fast to blame and exploit them.

As much as of a great power and production China holds, the leaders has to be splashed with lava over their heartless and inconsiderate ways.

I was scared that internet and Weibo is being tracked, are citizens pets? Clearly China had never gone out of the almighty emperor's period.

Sorry for anyone of Chinese origin, but how can you keep loving your country in such conditions?

I do choose immigration, when I reach, without a second thought with such a crazy government 🤢

I didn’t want another child at all and it’s a long story but I couldn’t get an abortion. My child’s father is a deadbeat. I realized that having a baby after your 20’s is extremely draining and then discovering the child has some sort of behavioral problem is upsetting and exhausting. I just feel bitter and wish I never had my child. Just wondering if under these circumstances what I’m feeling is normal?

I'm still childless at the age of 29. I just didn't realize time would go by so fast.

I've been spending my years on education, playing video games, traveling to places, going on cruises, etc. I just though I never wanted kids. I do admit telling a past ex boyfriend ''If you ever get me pregnant, I'm solving the issue faster. I believe in modern medicine and procedures, not god nor religion.'' I used to tell a close friend that it would be great if I never got pregnant ever.

Fast-foward to present time:

Here I am and now it's different. It's been nearly 6 months that I've been having baby fever. I can't believe I said all those things. Are you surprised I'm childless?