is anyone else dealing with jealous ignorant unsupportive friends? my own bestfriend is really showing her entire personality right now and really starting to piss me off, first she was jealous of me getting married now she’s acting like a selfish friend because me and my husband are planning on having a baby in the next couple of years
she’s saying we shouldn’t “ have a baby right now “ all types of ignorant negative crap completely discouraging me I am really sick of her!!! how could she treat her own bestfriend like this?
she recently congratulated and supported one of her friends from having a baby but yet (me) she’s being so rude and completely rude, saying we might not be able to have a child in the next years or 2 and also making rude ignorant jokes I’m starting to feel really discouraged, she also would say very mean things making me feel like I wouldn’t be a good mother this would be me and my husband first child together if we do end up having one and when we do I will not tell her about my child
when she had a baby years ago she had a abortion I was really really supportive of her but yet she’s being a horrible person towards me and completely unsupportive saying she doesn’t want me having a child and even said a baby would “ ruin and mess up my life “ how could you say something so ignorant like this? just because you don’t want kids and dislike kids doesn’t mean I would feel the same way! how are you going to speak on my feelings towards a child? when I never been pregnant my entire life or even had a baby before? how could you say I would feel that way about a innocent child?
her words literally hurt my feelings so bad as much as I want a child this really hit a nerve coming from my own bestfriend!
she even made a really insensitive remark on a woman losing a child recently and said the woman deserved it I can’t believe I called a woman like this my bestfriend how can someone be so cold and proud about it?
