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We met at a friend's birthday party. Hit it off, exchanged numbers.

We've not done anything sexual yet since meeting for 2 coffees but his texts are quite sexual & to be blunt I've a feeling he's using me to get off. He is often communicating during the week but come the weekend is more or less dead silent. He wants to meet during the week when he has some time off & my work is closed for renovations for a month - we're being paid.

Quite bluntly as he doesn't seem to pay much attention to what I said - like he praised something I showed him via a link. And a colleague - our mutual friend - was tearing the same link apart. That's not the first time I highly doubt he even looks into what I share.

To be honest I haven't fallen for much of what he says about love, etc. particularly when half of his actions contradict what he says.

The guy is Muay Thai class A pro-fighter at the local town's sports centre (Muay Thai oriented). I'm a beginner class B.

I don't know him properly, but I've heard some things about him (mostly good) and I have also looked him up at the fighter's page (he seems to be around my age or slightly older). He's really good at Muay Thai (thai box) and has already won a title and other fight matches as well.

I think I might already have a crush on him. :|

We don't always meet (me being a beginner, him a pro) but when we do he always seems to be looking at me, he comments on the way I do stuff (not always the right way, I have much to learn), he's not rude but he's honest, he's also quite playful, he's noticed it makes me very nervous when he (as an occasional trainer) watches me so we kind of joke about that. 😅 It's hard to explain 😅 My first visit there, he actually let me borrow his expensive skipping rope. He's also always ready to say hi (one time I forgot my stuff there so I went back to this sports centre, I didn't know he's gonna be there and seemed so surprised by seeing me dolled up a little bit in my more normal clothes).

I guess I can't really expect more because we don't meet that often. :/ But when we were getting warmed up, I was supposed to pull him over, he of course did let me win (I guess he sees himself as a gentleman, he has that reputation there, girls said he doesn't punch as hard when sparred against a girl). In that moment, when we touched and held each other's arms, I thought I might have felt something but I brushed it off.

I haven't been with anyone for a long time now so I might sound like a little girl again to you.

I will really appreciate anyone who reads this wall of text of mine and shares what they think.

Hopeless romantic 💕

Within a week you don’t even know someone right?

And he told me he had feelings for me and we’d be a really good family (with our 3 kids) the same day he slept with her and met her and had slept with me 10 hours before.

This is a sign of a narcissistic person. There’s always a tie over and they always cheat then fall in love very fast (didn’t think a week but hey ho)

Or is this genuine and he’s being honest and I’m such a problem (even tho he did this to me too)

He also has made no attempts with his kids and threatened lawyers then did nothing.