Search Results: how to get guys to approach me

Do some women not realize if they never make a move they can’t get who they want?

If you’re too lazy to make a move or when show interest. You can’t choose the man you want. Sure men will approach you… But are they not your type, is it not the guy you’re interested in, is it always at the wrong place...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why wouldn't he try to talk to me?

There is a guy in my class who keeps making eye contact with me every time I look over around his direction. Every time our eyes meet, he wouldn't look away but just stare. Even when he is in a conversation with someone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Is this a good approach?

Whenever someone says something good or something bad about me, I note them down in the Notes app just so I can look at myself and see how I could improve myself. This is what it looks like: You’re nice, kind and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

I don't know if I should feel embarrassed or not? I wasn't even sure if posting was a good idea, but I don't have many girl friends. Should I be?

So, I was up late last night, in my apartment, thinking about things. Just had a 2nd date with a new guy earlier yesterday, who's about 8inches taller than me, which I like. And I remembered that most of my higher heeled...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why do I never get approached?

I’m 18. Haven’t gone out a lot and if I do it’s mostly bars and never clubs. I would say I’m attractive but I have confidence and self-esteem issues as well as being shy so that could be a factor, but at the same time I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

What did he mean by space, initiate hooking up and then ghost me again?

was in a situation-ship w/ a guy who would leave/return, ignore my messages, it took a toll on my mental health. i ended up really codependent and chasing him, did something really stupid (a loyalty test which he took the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What does he mean, is he the one confusing me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

How decent is a 6:30 minute all-out mile run time on a treadmill for a beginner?

I'm currently 6'2 (1.88m) and weigh about 170 pounds (77 kg). Because I never really went to the gym, I don't have any apparent muscle definition and I estimate my body fat percentage to be about 20%. I live a rather...

Klaasvled02

Xper 2 Age: 23

Girl's Behavior

What's the right way to deal with a selfish woman who also exhibits psychopathic traits?

By psychopath i mean she frequently chases my co-workers, friends and acquaintances for dating and romance, after this woman & broke she was married off to someone else and has kids with that guy but she hasn't left me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

What should I be doing letting it go?

I really do feel alone in this world right now like I’m battling my own demons let me explain. Me and a friend of mine were at college together and studying the same course. I left a few months later due to work being fat...

FlameZee78

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Why do only guys I don't find attractive approach me?

I'm really scared my perception of myself might be wrong and that people who compliment be might be lying to me I only ever get approached by men I have zero attraction to I swear. I can be in a room full of men I find...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Why don’t more girls just approach?

Sure plenty of girls that do. Men should too don’t get me wrong. I have had girls tell me that they wasted all their time on a guy who turned out to have a girlfriend, or a guy who seemed to be into her lost interest and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Could he possibly be interested?

My ex and I had a really bad break up a few years ago. I didn’t meet his family but everyone he knew essentially blocked me so I wouldn’t reach out to him. However, a year or so later I got a shoutout from a page and his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do I break up with my boyfriend of 7 months in this case?

How do I approach dissatisfaction with my overall relationship? We met in June via Hinge, and from the beginning, he made it clear he had never been in a relationship and was focusing on getting his life together before...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Should I approach him or give up?

This guy I like sometimes makes me feel like he likes me he’s always also looking when I’m not looking and stuff he always says hi and makes sure to add my name after saying hi he also twice asked me where a manager was...

Victoria7869

Xper 4 Age: 26

Dating

As a girl, what what am I doing wrong when trying to flirt and hit on guys in public places?

Okay I’m not having any luck on dating apps. Since guys are on there looking for sexting. That I have posted questions online and read opinions about how to find a relationship. Which are: “go out and socialize and get...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Do I let my son go down the childstar root?

I had my son when I was very young at only 16 and ever since its just been me and him. My family kicked me out and as soon as I told the farther he ran. We've struggled but he's a really special boy and we are extremely...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

What should I do next?

Ok. So I need your advice guys. I just started a new sport and I met this guy. He is super confident and a smooth talker. I vibed with his confidence and gave him the same ‘teasing’ energy back. However, I do think he is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Do you get along better with males or females?

When making new friends, do you find it easier to approach/open up to guys or girls? Why do you think that's the case?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Likes me but got back to his cheating ex? He approached me a while ago nd we'd talk and he is totally into me but got back to his ex. What to do?

This guy approached me a while ago. At that time he and his ex were broken up for 3 years. He is very kind to me, smiles whenever he sees me, shares personal details about himslef he doesn't tell anyone, keeps asking...

Anonymous

(30-35)