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There is a negative stereotype that men are slower to grow up and mature when it comes to how they treat the opposite gender.

Personally I know I think and react differently towards women in general compared to how I was in my teens and early 20s. I am more careful about the comments I make, refrain better from starring too long (if she’s attractive), I communicate better if I am interested or not, I make better thought out decisions and I handle rejection better (and reject others better) compared to the younger version of myself

I also know most women hate the feeling of “being used and/or lied to for sex.” If it’s a hook up or fling I’ll be open about my true intentions even if it costs me want. Not to say I was a liar when I was younger. But years ago I would stay tight lipped if I just wanted one thing when the other girl was thinking we would get in a relationship. In retrospect I recognize that was wrong. Nowadays I don’t give false hope.

That of course doesn’t mean I’m perfect. I will continue to make mistakes. However I am more cognizant of how the other gender thinks now. I also am less likely to get caught off guard if a bad gut sense about something.

With that said I’ve have unfortunately encountered a lot of grown ass women in their 30s and even older that still show blatant immaturity. The worse example is how some of them still play dumb if a guy is interested (and woman isn’t) to exploit the friéndzone for attention and benefits.

I would think a grown woman would know better than to do that. It’s not a sex issue but a respect issue. The guy has only so much time, resources and patience to stick his neck out.

He can handle rejection but being friendzoned is extremely insulting. He will usually figure it out faster than a young man and when he does he will feel exploited.

Just meeting older woman who still believe in this crap is insane.

I got turned on when my girlfriend Becky told she was a slut I’m the past. Becky used to have videos on pornhub and has had sex with lots of guys in her past. Most guys would’ve lost respect for Becky but I think it’s kinda hot. Whenever she tells some nasty shit she did with other dudes in the past, she does the exact same things to me. The thought of her making sex videos in her past turns me on a lot.

Becky tells me she’s glad that she had that past experience. Because if she didn’t, she wouldn’t want have known I was the perfect sexual match for her. And how she doesn’t think about sex with anyone else but me. I know these are generic lies that I’ve heard from hundreds of women. But her actions speak louder than words. She always checking me out, doesn’t notice other hot guys checking her out, she masterbates to my shirtless poster (I’ve come home early and caught her in the act), and texts me like crazy if she goes 6 hours without hearing from. Even random strangers commenting on how she seems obsessed with me.

My deep gut feeling tells me that Becky is loyal and really loves me, and that she really is sexually devoted to me. She is one of the prettiest women I’ve ever seen and no one has sexually pleased me the way she has. Aside from sex she’s a good girlfriend in general. Becky is the best cook and a good gamer 🎮. Lots of fun to hang out with. Wouldn’t wanna date anyone else.

I know most guys will think I’m a simp for saying this but, I don’t think it’s ok slut shame a girl if she’s currently loyal and submissive to you atm. And realistically, there's lots of women who get married as virgins and still cheat. Anyone you date is capable of cheating regardless of their past. You just never know how people will change. Drop your comments and let me know your thoughts on this!

This depends on the ex.

There are a 1-2 where I would gladly lead on and burn them preemptively. Reason being is what they did to me has never been done to them before. They actually need a painful lesson to see what their shitty decisions can do to people.

For example I had one ex completely ghost me after 9 months of dating after a minor argument. If she had experienced that herself (doubt she ever has) she would think twice about doing it to someone else. I however just never ghosted anybody out of simple principles. I always gave someone closure no matter how uncomfortable it was. But some people unfortunately just don’t have respect and common sense and need the school of hard knocks.

However I would just ignore others and avoid dating them. There is one girl I would have done a better job with communicating/responding with before she made a horrible decision (99.99% sure she cheated). That one could do turned out differently. But I would definitely kept my guard up.