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My Ex boyfriend of 8 Months told me at the month 8: "I enjoy what we have in the present, I'm not sure if it stays. I don't see a future for us" For me that was a reason to break up. Because till month 8/ he wasn't able to communicate our future, his emotions or anything in regard of our relationship. He wasn't even sure if he wants to move away from home. If I didn't asked I would have never knew how he felt.

My second boyfriend now: After all that I shared with him in the 1 year of our relationship he opened up to me in month 6 but after I ask. Now little by little he can talk about things regarding our relationship but it is still a long way till he can tell me without me asking him what hurts him or not. This makes me very sad. As for now, after all the things I sacrificed for him in regard of time and money he told me: let's try out if it works out."

Am I pathetic to end things because the person doesn't see a future for us?

I’m trying to get rid of it of course BUT how unattractive is this? Enough to not want to date a girl if you were initially interested and then see she has arms like this? and yea you can’t always tell because sometimes we wear jackets or long sleeves that make it look “normal”I almost never wear shirt sleeves or sleeveless shirts or dresses. I always wear an over shirt or a jacket or tight long sleeves that slim down this part that makes it somewhat unnoticeablebut honest opinions please I don’t need compassionate or light words because you think you might “hurt my feelings” just say straight up what you think! !