My family is toxic my mother being a major roll in my abuse
I moved out a month ago i moved 5 hours away.
As much as I want to hate my mother I can't I want to hete her but I can't despite every bit of hell and pain she gave me I love my mother and I can't stand to hurt her.
I don't care if she visits me but I need her to put the fucking bottle down and I know she can't that bottle has always been more important to her.
I haven't told her Ware I live yet she knows the town but not the address I haven't told her my address because I don't think I'm strong enough to tell my mother to get out of my house when she tries to start something.
She lives 5 hours away if I kick her out she will drive drunk and it's not a few blocks away I don't want to be responsible for my mother dieing in a car accident because I told her to get out
I'm also scared that if she doesn't give up I'll be forced to get a restraining order against her and the thought hurts
She has been texting me recently
""U know what I've never done anything except fight my ass off for u given u everything I ever could I will not bother u again. No worries I won't come visit uY u treat me like this."
I haven't replied to her
I honestly want to vomit and I don't know what to do I just feel so weak