The only people who get upset when you set boundaries are those who benefited from you having none?

[coachTanthony]

Agree

Disagree

Other (left my two cents in the comments below)

see poll (I am setting my boundaries on this question)

[lernulo]

More people does it.
Those who aren't bold enough to put them.
People who you can hurt sometimes when you put them...
But if you do it with conviction and for a reason they will end up understanding it.

[Blitzkrieg_88]

Good fences make good neighbours

[MzAsh]

Completely agree! Everyone should develop their own personal boundaries.

[gothgirl997]

Another wise quote!
Is it yours Coachtanthony? Or copy paste? 😂

[coachTanthony]

Ha I am sure I saw it somewhere! Can't take credit for this one!

[maadison]

Quote of the week!

[DespiteBeing]

Hi! Few things to start off with =] 1. Yes I
added you because you're a female
gamer, 'tis an awesome thing to see!
2. I'm Brian. 3. Don't be intimidated, but
I'm not a stereotypical guy.
If anything, I'll be the one in the kitchen =D.

[coachTanthony]

What in the hell are you talking about? lol

[Creepazoid]

LMAO

[winterfox10]

It seems like people with poor boundaries will get upset or be confused, regardless of whether or not they benefit from your lack of boundaries.

[AdventureRequired]

Sometime boundaries are just incredibly unreasonable and that person only puts them in place so they can benefit from having them.

[coachTanthony]

If that’s the case then they are only beneficial if the other person allows them.

[AdventureRequired]

Correct, it's really a two way street. But I don't agree with the quote because the reverse is just as possible as the implied benefit. Boundaries are good. But the verbage on the post is not.

[coachTanthony]

Lol ok thanks for the comments

[AdventureRequired]

As in you can be resonably upset at someone's unreasonable boundaries without being upset that they have some in the first place.

[AdventureRequired]

A real life example: Someone who is sensitive to smells working in a cubicle next to you asks you to stop using so much aftershave. This is a completely reasonable boundary to set. However if they asked the business to make a policy so that no one can use scented anything on the premises... That is a highly unreasonable boundary. And only they would benefit from a change that effects possibly hundreds of people. So no, the people who get upset over boundaries are possibly not upset that you have them... It's just that they are possibly ridiculous.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Definitely.

[TITAN-IDC]

Thats called co-dependency..

[EleanorRigby]

100%. Absolutely.

[Babygirl_S]

Wise quote!

[Jamie05rhs]

I absolutely agree.

[JimRSmith]

Absolutely, yes.

[Liam_Hayden]

Absolutely.