Search Results: answering texts

How to get clarity on mixed signals?

I’m in my early 50s. I became disabled a few years ago. The guy that did the work on my car after my accident turns out when we were kids. He was literally the guy next-door. I have the worst crush on him. he graduated...

Ravenmoonshadow

Xper 2 Age: 52

Break Up & Divorce

How do you heal after your ex blocks you everywhere?

My ex had been uncertain about our relationship since April — he didn’t know whether he wanted to stay with me or not. It was a heavy and exhausting situation, because I kept waiting, and holding on for so long. But he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does she keep texting?

So this girl keeps texting me, sometimes not for a week. Sometimes drunk, sometimes just checking in whenever. But she can never tell me why she texts me, she just can’t explain. She also once said she ‘wasn’t ready for...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Was I too pushy?

Been texting this girl who lives in another state for about two weeks. Talked on the phone once. Tried calling her again (texting continued between calls) no answer. She texts back she is busy trying to get ahead with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does he want from me?

Hooked up with a guy out of state about 5 weeks. He has stayed in contact since then. He randomly views my socials even though he doesn’t follow me he’ll like them. He’ll call randomly. Sometimes I send him funny memes...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Men, why is my ex still looking at our text messages when he claims he likes another woman?

I know why I'm still looking (because I still love him but I can't be around him) but I'm confused about his reason for doing it. He's supposed to be in love with another woman and I haven't talked to him in months. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think my sister should respect me the way I am?

My sister is not like me obviously but I believe she expects me to be like her and since imnot like her she gets upset because of that. For instance when she text me (not urgent matters) she expect me to answer her right...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I dont know how to deal with my sister?

My sister sometimes is very demanding. She is those person who need answer right away to her text messages otherwise she gets mad if I dont answer right away or I take until the next day to answer. Im with a bit of a cold...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Women, I really need your honest perspective: why do you give your number, text a little, and then ghost? (Real detailed examples inside)?

I’m asking because this keeps happening with different women—5 or 6 times now—and I honestly don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I’m not here to bash anyone; I just want real answers from women to understand why this keeps...

FredJames

Xper 1 Age: 31

Dating

I fear my boyfriend ghosted me, what do I do?

Okay so recently my long distance boyfriend hasn't been answering any of my texts or calls on any plat form, I have sent him a few messages that I will have a pic of but I am afraid he has ghosted me. Men (or women) I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Technology & Internet

Have you used ChatGPT to get answers? Did you like it?

I think chatGPT gives more like text book answers. What do you think?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do people ignore me when I talk to them or be nice to them?

So we got back from an awesome trip and when we were waiting for the others, my cousin’s girlfriends (let’s call her Madi) older sister (let’s call her Tori) was so snarky. She didn’t even stop to say hi or goodbye. My...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What is he trying to prove to her?

My ex boyfriend keeps on telling his baby mother he's not sleeping with me. I read all of their text messages. He told her that I was NEVER his girl. I met this dude back in 2017. he barely knew her When he got her...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Should I block this friend and move on?

So I met a girl a little while ago on bumble bff on an app to make friends. I moved here almost a year ago and joined the app to make friends earlier in the year. I would say we’ve sporadically hung out once a month or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How often should you text in the talking stage?

We’ve been talking for 2 weeks now. I feel like he doesn’t like me that much anymore. Unless that’s just how he texts. He did ask to meet like two days ago, but our schedule is so crazy. It’s kinda hard to meet for now. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is she digging?

Last week a girl texted me saying if she could ask something. She then proceeded to ask me about a couple girls i’ve been with. Some things were very lowkey and even girls from out of town. But she asked about them. Now...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Am I being entitled? If you want to meet up, why are you wanting me to reach out first?

30F this is happening more and more over the past couple of years. If you want to meet up, why do I have to text you when I’m available? Since you’re initiating, shouldn’t you ask for my number or another platform to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

30F this is happening more and more over the past couple of years. If you want to meet up, why do I have to text you when I’m available? Since you’re initiating, shouldn’t you ask for

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Why would my slim friend only invite me out to make herself look good and men flirt with her in front of me?

I’ve known her since high school but we didn’t interact with her much. We have started talking more and hung out often. She is a very cool, hip and fashionable girly girl. Well I used to thing she’s a sweetheart until...

Anonymous

(25-29)