Search Results: boyfriend likes his ex

Long distance relationship: have I stay too long?

A bit of background: I met my boyfriend while living abroad. He has two kids, seven and three, and his ex suffers from clinical depression, making co-parenting challenging. Unfortunately, I had to return to my country due...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Recently discovered that my boyfriend went to his family Christmas gathering with his ex while he was courting me. what should I do?

Been with my current boyfriend for close to a year now, only came to know recently that during the period when he was courting me, he still went to a family Christmas gathering with his ex. He said they weren't together...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do?

I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I need to get this off my chest because I want to make it clear to myself and others that I’m not crazy. I met my ex online, and in the first three months, I cheated on him while he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you do when you're triggered because you're accused of something but can't prove that the person is wrong?

I have a love, hate relationship with getting sick. Because of Covid, people showed part of their selves that I was blinded to. Two 9 years old friendships disappeared because one of them thought I had covid and the other...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys want to stay with their first girlfriend long term/permanently?

i’m my boyfriend’s first girlfriend, though he’s my 2nd boyfriend. (i haven’t done anything with the ex). the reason my ex left me was because he wanted to “explore his options” and “not be chained down” so went to...

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Xper 1 Age: 17

How long did it take you to get over your ex? How long did it take to get over what they did to you?

It took me 4 years to get over my ex. I think it took that long because we're coworkers. I forgave him around 3 years ago, but I haven't gotten over what he did to me. I think about it every time he starts to get too...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Landlord notice valid or being a racist?

Hi so my boyfriend rents a house and his landlord lives on the property as well. I was over a few times and all was well, accept for once when he locked us out of the house by accident and had to ask the neighbors...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why does My ex boyfriend change his profile photo after I changed mine?

I gotta ask — I changed my profile photo a few days ago, and now I see that my ex-boyfriend, who had a private profile, uploaded a great picture of himself and made his account public. Why? Is he trying to make me...

Samsaman

Xper 1 Age: 22

Is it normal to feel insecure when your partner is an influencer with tons of influencer friends?

My boyfriend is a fitness influencer. He never posts me on his account because he said it’s unrelated to his content - plus I also don’t have social media. Lately he’s been getting so much more followers and exposures...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I be concerned that my boyfriend does not post me on social media?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost Four years. I normally would have never thought about him not posting me on social media, but red flags started happening. Mutual friends of ours would tag us in photos and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend still hurt for a previous relationship?

Some background : we are in our 50s, my current 3 months boyfriend had a relationship live in girlfriend for 7 years that ended almost a year ago. We had a weekend getaway this last weekend. I checked his phone.. I should...

geeklatina

Xper 5 Age: 50

Guy's Behavior

Does it sound like he's still using me?

So my ex boyfriend and I are back together... And now I'm starting to regret it AGAIN... I'm regretting it because He's STILL NOT posting me on his social media. but at the same time, he cut his baby mother and their...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Second Marriage?

My current boyfriend and I have both been married before- I have no kids, but he has two (one from a prior relationship, one from his ex-wife). We’re almost at the 2-year mark, and not in any rush to move in or anything,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think of guys who had friends with benefits n sex with his ex? Will it still feel special with me?

So my boyfriend first sex experience was friends with benefits with this girl that he met online. She asked him to be her boyfriend 3 times which he rejected all. He wanted it to be casual. But for the 4th times she was a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is refusing to maintain contact with an ex partner often viewed as "Petty" and "immature"?

Especially if they were the ones to initiate the breakup and you did not want to break up? I'm pretty sure other factors will probably makes sense but I just want to go with one example. I have been broken up with...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 35

Boyfriend's ex messaged his mom after a year of breaking up, why?

I started dating my boyfriend a year ago, and then 3 months ago, his ex messaged his mom out of nowhere after nearly a year and a half of breaking up. She was blocked but still managed to contact her. I wonder why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Advice needed please help?

I have past trauma and struggle with trusting men, even though my current partner hasn’t done anything to hurt me. He is very understanding and does reassure me but I don’t know why Instagram in particular is the big...

Anonymous

(25-29)