Search Results: control in relationship
How can I meet someone for a serious relationship at 45 when new to the area?
I’m 45, never been married, no kids. It’s not that I’ve been the type that’s promiscuous or a player, it’s just what I had to deal with in my life that left me single. In my early 20s, my father’s health started to...
Im obsessed with a married man?
I met this guy whilst working at an old job. We were the only ones out the younger staff in committed long term relationships. He was a little older than me by 4 years and we became really close as we had loads in common....
How do I accept that men fantasise about other women while in a relationship?
Before you answer, hear me out. I'm often called ''jealous'' or ''insecure'', I'm here because I'm tired of being misunderstood. My problem is this: I don't care how loyal and respectful a man is. If a man has to control...
Single people, are you the "avoidant attachment" type or have you ever dated someone like this?
Here are some traits of this personality in relationships: "I leave, then think about them all the time" "My defence mechanism kicks in and I begin to sabotage the relationship" "too much intimacy makes me feel vulnerable...
How to deal with excessive jealousy?
I have trouble with feelings of jealousy. Not just in romantic relationships, but for crushes and sometime friends as well. It is not something that leads to unhealthy external reactions (trying to control the person,...
How do you deal with a gamer boyfriend who’s always “there but not really there”?
My boyfriend is a full-on PC gamer. I knew he was a gamer when we started dating, and I even thought it was cool I play occasionally myself, and I always got along with gamers. But now that we live together, I’m realizing...
Do women in relationships fantasise over other men?
Men who do their best. Do women still tend to have occasional lustful thoughts over other men? I ask because men do it, we are wired to. I do think it’s more innocent though as long as the man controls himself Can you...
Am I wrong for wanting to fix my friend up?
I matchmake. It’s what I do for my friends and not to toot my own horn, but I’m good at it. I’ve brought so many of my friends into happy, healthy relationships that eventually turned into happy marriages. I have one...
HELP, is my girlfriend done with the relationship?
So me and my girlfriend of 8 months have had a pretty turbulent relationship from the start with lies about dating other people in the seeing one another stage to a few others. I have been very over bearing and...
If ohana means family, then what is this?
so my fiancé he is 23 and I am 29. He has been having a lot of rough patches since we have been together. We have been together for about going on three years. He had a diagnosis of an illness. It is under control now. So...
A situationship isn’t love, it’s emotional abuse in disguise…
We live in a time where “it’s complicated” has become a normal relationship status. Where casual hookups are expected, and commitment is seen as pressure. But there’s a painful truth underneath all the mixed signals and...
Why do some females’ blame their spouses for them having to work?
I sometimes hear girls’ say my husband makes me work? And I just shake my head , my ex use to say shit like this to me as well , and I would get upset at her and tell her don’t work then , but don’t think you are going to...
Learning not to get too emotionally attached
Getting emotionally attached to someone is something most of us do without even realizing it. We meet someone who makes us feel seen, understood, or happy, and before we know it, we start depending on them emotionally....
Can someone explain what’s wrong with my mom? She literally she was sexually active at 18?
Why would a mom be so controlling about her daughter’s sex life—even at age 19, still trying to keep her a virgin—when neither of them is Muslim? The mom has a body count over five and has admitted to doing some things in...
Equality with men is not always beneficial to women
Inspired by a question I answered this morning on GAGS, the question was “When do you think women will finally be equal to men?” Equality is important, but trying to make women the same as men in every way isn’t always...
The covert assistant?
Anyone ever deal with a woman who tries to be a secret but is anything but that? she might as well spray paint "I was here" across a guys entire body. When i can easily tell it's supposed to be some kind of secret thing...
Do you think the requirements in this publication reflect a healthy, respectful, and equitable view of relationships?
Do you think the requirements in this publication reflect a healthy, respectful, and equitable view of relationships, or do they rather reveal problematic attitudes such as control, objectification, and inequality?
Why would he start dating his best friends ex?
The guy I was seeing hated his friend’s girlfriend because she was toxic and mean to his friend and she was controlling while they were together. Around the same time the friend broke up with the girlfriend my guy and I...
Why do women get mad when I say "men shouldn't coddle women in relationships?
Women have told me, they feel like coddling is controlling. Corny or annoying is also wordz they use to describe it. But other women, want to label it "entitled" and " without being honest about the true criticism also...
Does anyone find it irritating when people brag about their relationships or are obnoxious about it?
There are a couple of people I know (Not going to mention names) who are bold or at the very least obnoxious about the relationships they have with their girlfriends. I happened to run into one of these people at a store,...
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