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My wife was talking to her sister everyweek living in another city 4 hours away and her sister's husband comes town and takes her out to lunch before i met my wife, he knew my wife was divorced and single probably her sister told him, my wife says nothing happened that night, but when i became her boyftiend , her brother in law comes to town again and invites her to his hotels bar for a drink i was her new boyfriend and no one knew about me but my wife told me if i would go with her so we went to see him together, she did not want to go by herself to see him , so it seems like we start seeing her sister and him a lot afterwards, this continued after we got married , we went trips vacations and eating out at least once a week , we even stayed in their house some weekends , i usually get up late but wife always gets up earlier and i woke up earlier to go to bathroom i saw her in the kitchen hugged and kissed her brother in law on the cheeks while he was making coffee and usually have conversation together untill i woke up about the same time as her sister while my wife an him alone in living room drinking coffee or watching tv i guess , when i was with him alone he was telling me dirty stuff like sleeping with another women cheating, do you think my wife has or had an affair with her brother in law? When my wife retired , i was working and we had one car she would go to see her sister and him once a week after we moved 20 minutes away from their house , my wife says she just went to book store and shops with her sister but sometimes he would go with them or cook lunch for them. Our sex life wasn't great with my wife. One day he gave me some viagra pills out of blue, and when i was retired he was kind of nasty or not talking much with me i guess my wife was not free anymore because always with me, and one day we were in their house for holidays my wife was dressed real nice he all of sudden said to me i only took your wife to dinner once and you better stay with her

0m/36f have been together twelve years, married ten. Have four kids. Both have decent jobs, house paid for.

So the husband resents the wife, calls her “loose” multiple times during arguments, blamed her for loosing contact with his family. doesn’t pay attention to the wife, help with the kids, wasn’t going to bed with his wife for months. Had an argument and she gave him one last chance to get his stuff straight. Also told him during this time she was going to get her financials squared away so she can leave at anytime.

The wife felt like she was just existing, unattractive, unwanted for about two years. She started selling “used garments” online for attention. Ended up having an emotional affair that she met on the website for almost three months. She told this other guy she’s falling for him making plans for their future and promised she’d go with him when her marriage ends. Also mentioned she’s pretty sure her husband won’t change. Mentioned swinging to her husband, and said her marriage is indifferent if it ends. Promised the guy when the marriage ends she’ll go to him.

Husband found the correspondence with the other guy told her to stop. She went no contact with the guy for about 27 days and wrote him saying she’s thinking about him, but she can’t open up the door to him or a relationship right now, and and wished him a happy birthday.

So is this marriage doomed? Will she stick it out? Odds she’ll leave?

40m/36f have been together twelve years, married ten. Have four kids. Both have decent jobs, house paid for.

So the husband resents the wife, calls her “loose” multiple times during arguments, blamed her for loosing contact with his family. doesn’t pay attention to the wife, help with the kids, wasn’t going to bed with his wife for months. Had an argument and she gave him one last chance to get his stuff straight. Also told him during this time she was going to get her financials squared away so she can leave at anytime.

The wife felt like she was just existing, unattractive, unwanted for about two years. She started selling “used garments” online for attention. Ended up having an emotional affair that she met on the website for almost three months. She told this other guy she’s falling for him making plans for their future and promised she’d go with him when her marriage ends. Also mentioned she’s pretty sure her husband won’t change. Mentioned swinging to her husband, and said her marriage is indifferent if it ends.

Husband found the correspondence with the other guy told her to stop. She went no contact with the guy for about 27 days and wrote him saying she’s thinking about him, but she can’t open up the door to him or a relationship right now.

So is this marriage doomed? Will she stick it out? Odds she’ll leave?