My affair has made my relationship better?

[Anonymous]

So typically you hear how affairs divide a couple, and push them apart. Yet for me, currently in the mist of a 6 year emotional affair, it’s actually made it better. Since forming this secondary relationship it’s made me happier and that has reflected on my primary relationship. He’s helped me find love for my current partner again, whilst learning to love him also. It’s not an affair where we slate who the other is with, and dream of running off together. We encourage and do things to make eaochothers relationships better, along with finding happiness in us being close the way we are. I suppose I’m wondering if anyone has found a positive impact from an affair as the net is just full of how it will drive your relationship apart, when we both feel it’s the opposite.

[VikingWarLord]

I cheated on an ex and she found out. She actually wanted me MORE after you figured it out. She knew it was coming though. It turned something that seemed bad into something REAL BAD (but in a good way) 😈. Long story short, I said upfront I've never stayed faithful to a bytch with small tiits on my dating profile. She thought she could change that. She was mid-30s, 5'2 105 lbs and A cup tiits, smoker, with one kid. She saw a text come in on my phone when I was in the bathroom and she read our convos and saw her pics.

This is her on the LEFT and the chic I was cheating on her with on the RIGHT
https://imgur.com/X3BS7Fc

No competition. She was mad at first, but then texted me a few days later saying she kinda knew I would cheat but still wanted to make it work if I didn't tell her of the women i was cheating on her with (she literally said this). I told her she knew upfront what I like and what I was able to get, but I was still gonna be the only DIICK in her life. She laughed and called me an azzhole. After that, she became my BDSM submissive and started doing kinkier shyt than she ever did before she found out. She would even join in threesomes and orgies with hotter bytches I'd find for us to play with.

[Luckycharms12]

Dont think you're man would be to happy about your affair and be as understand about encouraging each other. If actually put that work in your own relationship

[billmunch]

Actually, It's a bit weird but it does happen.

I'm fact, I'm a little bit weird because I love being cheated on in a relationship. It turns me on knowing my SO is banging other guys. I prefer to date more promiscuous women. In fact, the more promiscuous, the better. My SO had a full on boyfriend and instead of hating her, It made me love her more.

Most guys would never want to date a cheater however, I wouldn't want to date a womwn who didn't.

[In_Trance]

i can't help but wonder how your SO would think of this

[Asker]

Yeh hurt no doubt, we aren’t planning on hurting anyone ever.

[LazerBean]

That's insanely pathetic.