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I am a very late bloomer when it relates to romantic relationships and marriage. I didn't get my first real girlfriend until I was 29. I am now 30 and will soon marry this same girl. Me and this girl are each other's first real relationship. I was her first kiss and everything. She is 27.

I will say my parents are separated. I have an estranged sister who is 29 who has also alienated my parents. My mom has been really hurt by this, and my sister is refusing to attend my wedding despite being invited. To me, snubbing me and my bride at my wedding is irreparable (this is a entirely different discussion). All in all, my immediate family has been torn apart for years now. My separated parents live different places, and my mom still lives around locally.

I am staying at my mom's boyfriend's house tonight (long story... we are evicting a troublesome, leftist, nasty old tenant at my home that rents the downstairs), and my mom walks into the room I am sleeping in and hugs me while crying. My mom is a little sad I am growing up and getting married. She is happy for me, but I think with all the family turmoil and me moving on (I am a mommy's boy), it is hard on her a little.

My girlfriend Krista has been overweight for the past year now. I’ve been trying to get Krista to go to the gym and she’s been refusing. Tells me she doesn’t have energy and makes up excuses.

Krista tells me I need to come with her to the gym. But I can't go to the gym with her regularly because of my busy work schedule. I work as an oil truck driver 14 hours days. So I’m always away or sleeping.

I asked Krista to go with my buddy Dale who’s a retired fitness coach. Krista says she’s not gonna go with a man. Always one excuse after another.

Today she told me she went on a 2 hour walk with a guy she works with named Cole. And how her and Cole are getting a gym membership together and they’re gonna go every day together.

Does this seem suspicious? Or should I end it?