Does living alone at 28 mean I’m abandoning my mom as I’m not married help?

[Sugar100]

I plan move out in 2 months. My dream of getting married at 28 never came true. No guy wants be my boyfriend and have serious relationship with me guys deny meet families deny call me his girlfriend, I never lived with a boyfriend. Just one guy I dated July he acted like a. Real boyfriend but after one month would avoid confirm if I was his girlfriend or not so I ended things I’m not a friend or friends with benefits.
I almost lived at his house tho I would visit and sleep at his house weekly.

I live with my parents in a Senior apt.
im scared and cry feel like a loser i dont want be 28-50 living forever with parents at a senior apt. 😓

my mom can’t afford rent and she depends on my dad to drive her around daily all day but they are old 60 and I fear I won’t be able start my life being with a guy , having babies, as I’ll be forever taking care of mom driving her around all day?
she gets mad when I say I will move out I want my own home, she says I’m going down wrong path in live as I’m not married and living alone.

but I’m not married cuz no guy married me 😓

I have dreams to decorate my house or apt. I can’t live those dreams? And need live with mom forever?
I want live with a boyfriend and she says I’m abandoning her by living alone or with a guy.
😓

[HollyK21]

Sugar, what else could we possibly say or do to help you at this point? It’s the same thing every day, no one can get you out of this situation but you at this point. You can’t wait on a man forever.

[Ask105]

Its not fault your parents didn’t do their own lives right they need to find a job then still i see people work all the time i had a guy nearly 90 teach a class he had better memory then me if he could move faster nothing different between us

[Clear_Skies10]

Congratulations on getting away from that hoarder. Your mom doesn't care if you ever have a life of your own, she just cares about herself. She can go live in an old folks home. You need to have a life too. She had her life.

[Anonymous]

And another one on the same day. Fuck off.

Is it normal for a girl to live alone at 28 or live forver with parents in their senior home til I’m old age?

[slatyb]

No, it doesn't. You are entitled to a life of your own.

[BigSwingingBalls]

you sort of are. but why dont you live with her UNTIL you find a guy, then leave? Why move out before you have partner to live with?

[Sugar100]

Becuz I’ll never get a boyfriend im almost 30 it don’t exist so I’ll be 50 never being able to rent my own apt as I dream of or anything

[Makeushiver]

@Sugar100 Don't worry about an age.

[Sugar100]

@Makeushiver I don’t want a first boyfriend at age 30,40,50 I want a boyfriend now wen I’m young 28 I wasted my 20s with no boyfriend

[BigSwingingBalls]

are you on apps? you have to proactive. if you are at least halfway attractive it won't be a problem

[Makeushiver]

The past is something you can't change. The future is rarely anything over which you can exercise control. Stay in the here and now. See what you can do today to improve your situation. It's impossible to know what is good or bad that's happening. You can only use the present. Everything else is a mirage.

[Makeushiver]

Don't. If your M. is guilt tripping you recognize that it's on her, not you

[Anonymous]

Sugar, you’re an old maid now

[Anonymous]

You’re an adult she can’t hold you hostage