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I told her there was no need for her to know about the plans i had for tonight untill i knew for sure it was happening. There was a big chance it wasn't gonna happen and yet because i thought i could trust my hairdresser she blabbed to my mum, then mum kept making comments claiming i was over reacting and he couldn't possibly like me? She even tried to make out i was making it up And no such person existed and she made other comments too like they were digs. She tells me Not to keep secret s but what does she expect when she interfers.. She knows this guy and most of our family know him (i dont think she knows who the guy is tho) but im not an idiot i do my research as much a si can. All i wanted was a drink in the pub we'd already been to, nothing else. Yet it appears from Them im Not allowed this at all? she's always been like this interfering in my business and getting too involved. Even with my brother she's like. "yes go out with this girl when the kids are at school and dont introduce them to her" etc like he's a child and not a grown man

28F, only thing I know for certain is I have anxiety & my self esteem could be better. But, nothing too terrible that makes me incapable of finding a LTR. I’ve been on and off dating apps for years, I don’t get how they don’t work for me as it’s known women have it easier & people tell me I’m attractive (not just family/friends). I have to use the apps bc I never get approached in person, I get the matches but in the end it just doesn’t work out. The last time I saw someone I was 23 & that only lasted for a few months. It felt like settling & I’ve become even pickier now. I don’t really have that much of a sex drive but that isn’t something a guy can sense right off the bat so I don’t think that’s it. It’s like I wonder if I’m ready to date but ffs I’m almost 30 that’s odd if I’m not. I met up with someone for the first time in almost 2 years last week & I didn’t even stay for the whole time, I left after maybe 15 min bc I wasn’t feeling it (even though chatting went well on the app), I had a long day, wanted to leave before the drinks arrived since I didn’t want him to get charged & most of all I was worried he was gay (by his voice). I usually video chat before but moving fwd that’s non-negotiable. Oddly enough I still don’t think it’s my fault for being single this long, yes I’ve tried counseling/medication & it was a bust. Can an almost 30 yr old woman date while being anxious, insecure, reserved & close to being maybe on the asexual spectrum?