She is a toxic mom who is selfish!
She does not want you dating or going out? Really tell her no grand kids if you don't!
What does she want you to do not meet any one? Get a relationship secret then latter tell her so she can scream at you!
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Most mothers in this world love their children and are afraid that their children will be harmed. I am also a mother of a child myself, and I can understand your mother's mood at that time.
How old are you really? If you are an adult, then you don't have to offer your mother or worry about what she does it doesn't allow. Do what you want, tell her what you want.
Im not sure but she is your mom
Maybe she just tries to make sure you are fine and she wants you to be safe, so no one can take advantage of you
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It very much depends how old you are to what the answer is. For a young girl, under the age of 16, then a mother being hyper concerned about what she's doing when she's out is pretty run of the mill (becasuse there are so many dangers for a young girl on her own and way too many unscruplous men who might take advantage).
However, if your an older woman (say in later 20's) then yes, this might reflect a controlling mother. There's tons of different reasons for a controlling mother and one of the most common is they made mistakes in their life and vowed to themselves they would protect /defend their own from the same mistakes (which is, misguided to do by trying to police their offspring).
So I wouldn't answer either. I would say that, whilst you should be able to proceed as you like regarding your privacy (assuming your 20+) it is disresepectful to keep secrets from your parents if your living with them still (that's not to say, you should have to tell them everything, but if your telling your hairdresser as a stranger you should be able to tell your parents too).
You should definitely, either way, talk to your Mum about whether she's respecting you as a woman (if your older) and if your younger discuss what she expects of you and debate wether those expectations seem reasonable and why you wouldn't feel they are.You're 36 FFS, why does your mom even have a say? Who cares what she thinks, you're an adult you don't need her permission.
you need to run far and run fast. that is one toxic woman that you do not need to ever see or speak to
The story is a bit confusing as it is worded, but it seems like both might be the case simultaneously.
Controlling. That's just too much.
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