Do you think my mum is controlling or concerned?

Monalisa77
I told her there was no need for her to know about the plans i had for tonight untill i knew for sure it was happening. There was a big chance it wasn't gonna happen and yet because i thought i could trust my hairdresser she blabbed to my mum, then mum kept making comments claiming i was over reacting and he couldn't possibly like me? She even tried to make out i was making it up And no such person existed and she made other comments too like they were digs. She tells me Not to keep secret s but what does she expect when she interfers.. She knows this guy and most of our family know him (i dont think she knows who the guy is tho) but im not an idiot i do my research as much a si can. All i wanted was a drink in the pub we'd already been to, nothing else. Yet it appears from Them im Not allowed this at all? she's always been like this interfering in my business and getting too involved. Even with my brother she's like. "yes go out with this girl when the kids are at school and dont introduce them to her" etc like he's a child and not a grown man
Controlling
Concerned
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3 mo
I forgot to add when she went out the door she laughed whilst saying have a nice night? When she knew i wanted to go out
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3 mo
For the girls saying concerned, she looked pissed off at me when my hairdresser told her, she's constantly telling me i can't get involved in her life, y did she need to know if he wasn't interested or even there, he didn't do anything wrong yet im concerned she might think he did
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2 mo
I scratched my arm badly when i missed the step at the bottom of the staires as i was going to check if the washing machine was on as i couldnt sleep and im sensitive to noise, she doesn't care about it and is angry at me for needing a plaster etc on it for bed.. Wtf? Even after all the stuff my brother said to her she still acts so cold
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2 mo
I asked her if a guy asked me out was i allowed to say yes she wouldn't answer
Do you think my mum is controlling or concerned?
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