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Search Results: is it love or infatuation
Can you really be in 'in love' with someone after only knowing them four weeks?
(In love - not in limerence, lust or a state of infatuation)
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a man with Asperger’s feel uncomfortable or threatened by my contacting him to warn him about someone impersonating him online?
Years ago, we liked each other. He said he was too disabled by his Asperger’s to have a relationship, then got all nasty and tried to lose me our friends. He’d always occasionally turn nasty towards me out of the blue and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Anonymous
(30-35) If I'm 26 do I have to date a 35-40 year-old man in order to have a family in a shorter timeframe?
I don't want a prolonged infatuation stage where it doesn't go beyond ''Oh, I miss you, lets go to the movies, oh you got me flowers, I love you'' (boyfriend and girlfriend stuff). Too many people are at that stage for...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is not cheating out of morals more meaningful than not cheating as long as you're in love?
I'll give you two examples: - Married couple A: There were times the sparks weren't there anymore, some days consisted of arguments and they fell out of love with each other but they're still faithful, still decided to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it possible to fall in love without infatuation?
Till now, I have experienced feelings of infatuation, which means addictive love, for anyone I fell in love with. Now, there is a guy with whom I want to have a relationship with, but there are no infatuation symptoms, so...
ephedrine
Xper 5 Age: 42 How to move things slowly with someone you see everyday?
After a month of flirting, I'm talking to a guy. Last night over text he says he loves me. (This is the reason I hate messging). To which I reply "you don't even know me". He said "take it easy?" and I said "yes." He...
DermalPunch
Explorer Age: 42 I want to fall in love and I’m insanely jealous of people in relationships. Why can’t I fall in love with anyone romantically?
I feel platonic/familial love for all my friends and family, I love them all with my whole heart but I can’t seem to fall in romantic love with anyone. I love the idea of being in love and want to truly love someone. I...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I get over my infatuation with older men?
I know why it started, it's the same reason for most girls, I had a really shitty relationship with my father. I still do. I must have been like 12 when I started having very inappropriate relationships with much much...
gothbbyx
Xper 1 Age: 21 Why even bother living together if most people break up?
More people want the easy way out, one foot out the door any time. They only want the good parts of a relationship, they want an extended infatuation period, the physical connection, the love declarations but no...
CelineBV
Explorer Age: 29 What % of relationships do you think make it further than just boyfriend and girlfriend having fun?
We all know the usual stages: the asking out on a date, introduction, spending quality time, being boyfriend and girlfriend, infatuation, love and the mature stage where you form a family with them. I'm aware there are...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever chosen lust/infatuation over love?
Did you loose the moon while you were busy chasing the stars?
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you know your in love and not just lust or infatuation?
I think I fell in love with a man I cannot be with, for personal reasons, and he tries to stay away because he knows there is no light at the end if the tunnel. We are both really the same and completely opposite in a way...
Anonymous
(30-35) Isn't it wise to be happy with what I have if time isn't in my favor?
It's been nearly a year since we've been dating and even though I'm not in love with him (infatuation stage never developed), I'm happy to have peace. If I were to go down the route of searching for infatuation, for a man...
Anonymous
(36-45) Can a single heartbreak make you lose the ability to fall in love?
It's not that you refuse or are bitter. It's the opposite of that. You're happy in your new healthy relationship but you simply can't fall in love. Many months can pass by or even a year and nope, you don't ever develop...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is falling in love overrated nowadays?
While you might see ''I'll love you forever'' stories in movies or Romeo and Julia play, in real life is falling in love overrated? Too many people don't end up having kids with that person. Or were in a toxic...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you really need to be infatuated and in love with your partner?
In my relationship we have mutual affection, respect and trust. I have compassionate love towards him, we spend quality time, shared common interests, have a good communication, have no arguments at all and I'm fond of...
Friends with benefits, I want more, should I risk it?
Here's the thing: I met this guy, he is everything I had ever hoped for: he is sweet, kind, considerate, doesn't look at the constructs for beauty, and he is so so so handsome, and he has an "international perspective" on...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it common to have kids with someone you love but not in love with?
We have a 3 year-old daughter. I had a complicated pregnancy (first one ever too) at the late age of 35. I love him but don't feel infatuation nor butterflies in my stomach. I'm not madly (passionate) in love with him....
Anonymous
(36-45) I feel differently about my boyfriend compared to the beginning of the relationship, is this normal?
This is my very first relationship. We’re hitting our 6 month mark of dating, and at the beginning, I felt a lot of new emotions like butterflies and a lot of nervousness and anxiety around him. Now, I’m feeling a lot...
Anonymous
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