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My girlfriend is very direct and extremely confident. She does not give a (bleep). Some guys have said she is a b$tch because she is so direct and some have said to me that they’re scared of her but why? Some have even said they hate her and/or that she’s fierce

it took a while for me to get to know her but we are deeply in love and she is the kindest woman I’ve ever met and she’s fiercely loyal but why is it that all these other men have such an aversion to her and are so hostile towards her?

One guy that liked her wanted her to cook him dinner and she said she wouldn’t do it and he was so aggressive and rude but she was being honest

I’m just curious what the issue is?
if no appropriate option write in the comments your opinion

The situation summed up:

- We're both 21
- We were close during highschool
- We currently don't live in the same country
- We started texting more and more these past few months
- We text about our personal lives late at night
- We send each other new articles or memes on social media
- We tease each other often
- She sometimes doesn't answer my texts within 24h
- She strikes up a conversation when she's on a train or a bus
- She talks about her failing relationship
- She mentioned she's scared she won't find anyone to settle down with (she's kinda insecure)
- She said I should invite her to my wedding when that day comes
- She mentioned how mature I've become over the past years
- She knows I liked her during highschool
- She said I should've told her back then, because "who knows if it could have led to something"
- She said she 'likes' frat boys (I'm not a frat boy by the way)
- She said she misses our highschool friends and life

I'm pretty sure she doesn't know I still like her, but she's sending me so many mixed signals I don't know what to think of the situation anymore. Is she into me or am I in the friendzone? Thanks in advance for your honest opinions!

The difference in age between my lady and me is almost 15+ years.

When i first met her i thought she was nice but later i found out i fel in love with her. Older man often like younger women and often talk about it laughing over our own ideas. But when it happend... I was scared to death.. turned out she was too. she never expect she would fall for an older man.

People often say she will leave because older men have nothing to offer , can't make babies ( or should not because they are like grandpa's..

We hare happy. And care less what other have to say about it.

But now i'm here and like to know why you think it can or can't. I dare you all to be honest so that we finally understand... So this is kind of research project 😃🤣