Hi
So I’m married & we have an open relationship - I look for friends with benefits on dating apps & I’m always honest and make my situation clear. I chat to a lot of younger lads (generally 25-35) I’m 45.
I find though that I chat to these young men and they tell me they are keen to meet…it’s flirty and sexy and on the odd occasion I may have sent some nudes.
However, on more than one occasion, when the time comes to meet they vanish. I have asked them why and they say that they get scared and chicken out!!! Is this true?