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Why do people always point out my anxious behaviour?

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Recently I've been trying my very hardest ot get out of my shell, I go to a club a lot where concerts happen and everything.

It's a club where people mostly dress black which I'm not into but I'm there for the music. I have bad social anxiety and a resting sad face and people always point out my awkwardness. People always come up to me and ask if I'm fine when I literally am fine. I will literally feel perfectly good until someone comes up to me and tells me that I look uncomfortable. Like I'm just standing there listening to the music. Wtf?

I'm a girl and I'd say it's about 95% men in that setting. There's guys who will just stand there in the corner listening to music or in the middle of the floor doing nothing and I don't see anyone coming up to them asking if they're good. Can it be that my introverted behaviour is really that weird or do people maybe just notice more because I get stared at a lot regardless? I never feel out of place until someone tells me that I look uncomfortable. Like can I just exist?

Why do people always point out my anxious behaviour?
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