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Why are dark‑skinned Black women still so devalued and mistreated?
When I was a child, I was bullied gor my skin colour a lot, for being a country girl, a good person and not behaving how a black girl should (whatever that means). I also met famous actors from London and America but they...
Glittershine1
Xper 5 Age: 32 Did my guy friend mean it when he texted “love you” after a favor?
So guy friend of mine whom I've known for 3 years now (we have been pretty close, texting, talking, he was there for me when ex&I broke up, he wiped my tears from my cheek, etc) has asked me for a favor every now and then...
Anonymous
(25-29) Tubes tied at 28 how to convince doctor?
I've struggled majority of my teenage years and young adult life with severe body dysmorphia... as a person who is actually unattractive! I never had a first kiss, been asked out, hit romantic milestones... no steak and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it normal at 24 to be single with no dating experience yet?
Hello, I just turned 24 and have never been in a relationship or a sexual encounter. i’m not someone that guys come up to and compliment or ask out. Which is pretty obvious due to the fact that I’ve never had a boyfriend....
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I text him directly after no reply, or just move on from dating?
I’m pretty social and have close friends but i feel a bit awkward when it comes to dating. Especially as a girl who was socialized around traditional norms I refrain from approaching men unless they come to me first. Even...
Anonymous
(25-29) How does trauma play into your fantasies?
So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
Anonymous
(25-29) My ex ghosted me over an old Instagram follow request—was she justified?
When my ex-girlfriend and I first met, she asked for my Instagram. I told her, "I don't use it," because I genuinely hadn't logged into the app for a very long time. However, my account was still active, and weeks before...
Iamcoming
Explorer Age: 25 Is my boyfriend’s follow–unfollow behavior on Instagram a red flag?
I noticed that my boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram. So I asked one girl to send him a follow request, and he accepted it and followed her back. He didn't send any text to her, though. What bothers me is that he...
Anonymous
(18-24) Was I actually in danger with this older limo driver or just paranoid?
Was in my early 20’s working at my dad’s spot & learned who the regulars were over time. One was this Italian limo driver, always known him by his first name, always tries his luck with me, but I always declined....
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my quiet coworker actually into me or just being friendly?
So I’ve been working at my job for a few weeks now, and there’s this guy I work with who’s really attractive. He mostly keeps to himself I never really see him talking to anyone but he’s spoken to me a few times. The...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is a 10 year age gap in dating really too much at 23 and 33?
This is kind of a curious question on my end. I know what I think of it, but I wanted to get some more opinions on the topic. There's this lady that shops at my store who I believe is not only one of the nicest customers...
tstarr17
Xper 6 Age: 34 Why is my coworker flirting at work but ignoring me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why does my coworker flirt at work but ghost me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this girl also at fault, and should I keep my distance from her?
Yes I have asked this question before but I didn't really get much traction on my post so will post a summarized version below. I had gone to a meet and there was this girl who was being rude and kinda condescending but...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I wrong to feel hurt, and is my friend also at fault for excluding me?
So there was this girl who was not very nice. We had gone for a group hangout. In the end when I was paying for my bill the other two were talking. The not nice one brought up some topic of some plans, not sure if it was...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does she like me romantically or are we just really close friends?
We’ve helped each other out plenty of times. Her more than me cause I’m always in a jam. I told her friend about my interest in her when I was drunk. I had some suspicion that my name came across there during the girl and...
MikeJones150
Xper 4 Age: 26 Am I wrong for not wanting strangers to touch my newborn baby?
So I dont actually have a newborn yet... im 31 weeks pregnant with my first child. I dont mind family and friends showing my baby affection and see that as perfectly normal but it got me thinking earlier when I a...
Babyseal23
Xper 4 Age: 28 What can I do about a security guard who followed me and demanded my number?
The shopping centre I always go to after University has this one huge tall muscular hairy South-Asian, maybe early 30s man that I am lowkey really terrified of, and I'm not talking just appearance, but he stares in a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Please answer this question if you can - Who's on first?
If I were to ask you "who's on first", what is your response?
u How do women fall in love differently from men?
As far as it goes for men. They primarily have that attraction love at first and then they fall in love with the actual girl and how she is which doesn't take that long either. I recently got to know a girl who I have...
RiseofArtemis
Xper 6 Age: 26 