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And NO I’m not talking about a bar or club where you go to meet people. Being upset that a RANDOM woman y’all approach rejects y'all especially when y'all are known to and I quote just want to “pump and dump” 🤮 is crazy

This guy goes out of his way to avoid me even though he is very sociable and I hardly ever approach him and we never had a fight. He is comfortable with other women in the workplace

28F, only thing I know for certain is I have anxiety & my self esteem could be better. But, nothing too terrible that makes me incapable of finding a LTR. I’ve been on and off dating apps for years, I don’t get how they don’t work for me as it’s known women have it easier & people tell me I’m attractive (not just family/friends). I have to use the apps bc I never get approached in person, I get the matches but in the end it just doesn’t work out. The last time I saw someone I was 23 & that only lasted for a few months. It felt like settling & I’ve become even pickier now. I don’t really have that much of a sex drive but that isn’t something a guy can sense right off the bat so I don’t think that’s it. It’s like I wonder if I’m ready to date but ffs I’m almost 30 that’s odd if I’m not. I met up with someone for the first time in almost 2 years last week & I didn’t even stay for the whole time, I left after maybe 15 min bc I wasn’t feeling it (even though chatting went well on the app), I had a long day, wanted to leave before the drinks arrived since I didn’t want him to get charged & most of all I was worried he was gay (by his voice). I usually video chat before but moving fwd that’s non-negotiable. Oddly enough I still don’t think it’s my fault for being single this long, yes I’ve tried counseling/medication & it was a bust. Can an almost 30 yr old woman date while being anxious, insecure, reserved & close to being maybe on the asexual spectrum?

Almost every man at work ignores me and doesn’t even look at me when walking past me and greeting me. It’s like I don’t even exist and when I talk to them they try to keep conversation short.
However when I dress a little bit more feminine everyone tries to make excuses to talk to me, one coworker always tries to flirt in front of his friends with me even though he dislikes me or thinks I’m boring.
These men are just as nice to other women regardless of their style. Does it mean these men don’t find my face pretty if I have to dress up just to be visible and treated like every other female coworker?