Search Results: being the other woman

I'm not sure if I can pick a clear winner, because each decade has their strengths and weaknesses. Today isn't too bad, but I actually think straight hair isn't as attractive as wavier or even slightly curly hair (depending on the women of course), which is why I like the hairstyles of say the 70s, or the early half of the 20th century. I like the classic styles of the 50s. I think the fashion for women in the 50s-60s in general was so classy, and not as obsessed with being 'sexy' like today. So overall I will go with the 1940s-1950s going by fashion icons like movie stars, models, other famous ladies.

Worst have to say would be the 80s. Not a fan of women having haircuts like David Bowie or extreme frizziness with the help of hairspray lol. The clothing. etc was just too far out.

After all, as a straight man, I just use my best razors 🪒 that I buy cheaply (it's a well known brand) and use cheap shaving cream (my fave cheap brand from new Zealand) and hooray I'm clean shaven again. I tend to shave my facial hair at least every few days. So smooth. In Disney's Saving Mr Banks, I like how when the woman author loses it, as brilliantly played by that British actress who did Nanny McPhee, she among other things rants in a rage how "and he was clean shaven, and why did you have to make him so, so cruel and so mean" lol I love her flip-out scene and many other scenes in that 2013 modern iconic classic for Mary Poppins original Aussie true story inspiration. Ahh yes. 🪒 I for one am a fan of being clean shaven, a man, and that rhymes.

When I see my girlfriend I feel love and attraction. But I also feel anxious. Like very anxious.

When I do things I enjoy by myself, or with most other people, they feel more fulfilling. As my girlfriend usually judges them as teen stuff, and she doesn't really seem to enjoy most of them. She's just there passing time.

This doesn't seem with specific things, but most things. She seems to like activities where you are passive, rather than active. And social rather than creative.

Paradoxically she also seems to dislike engaging with most people, where I like to exchange with persons of all kinds. She likes to live more isolated, and I like to find my neighbors and talk with them.

She loses most friendships where I have very long term friendships. She says I only have friends because there are friends from school.

The bad part about this is that my girlfriend usually want to drive me away from the things that I like and enjoy most. Even from my work, she finds it unappealing where I'm highly passionate about it. It looks rather a lack of an appeal for everything that is not just buying stuff, dining out, and cleaning the house.

So it has reached a point that being away from her makes me feel good, and being with her makes me feel like I'm selling my life cheap. That I should completely change myself to be as this woman wanted, and that is exactly the opposite of what I enjoy.