Search Results: desperate

Why do people act like being a "simp" is a bad thing?

I don't get why its such a bad thing to be a simp like being "too nice" to women is something bad? Just seems like a lot of straight men use this word to belittle men that treat women right because they are pieces of shit...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I text her?

Met this girl she was from Israel I was at work she was a customer we went on a date I think she liked me she gave compliments, she was pissed when I took out my card to pay. Kissed only 4 times she said I should come...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How can a 5'4'' man find a girlfriend?

I don't want to come off as insecure or desperate, but here goes. I am 25 year old man and I have never had a girlfriend. I have a healthy life otherwise, good job as an engineer, many hobbies (music, chess, linguistics)....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Making out with my girlfriend during a birthday party?

So me and my girlfriend rarely meet and coincidentally we got invited to a girls birthday party we haven't told anyone except her two friends that where together and we want to make out during the party inside the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do men decide they want you once you stop caring about them?

I was madly in love with a guy who was lukewarm about me and made excuses not to kiss or sleep with me or pursue a romantic relationship, that he wanted to but had sensory issues. I respected that and moved on over time....

Anonymous

(36-45)

A guy I used to like rejected to even be friends last year. I still care but have up in him. His birthday is coming up. Should I wish him?

He used to behave like he likes me too so i confessed to him but he rejected me and asked me to date his best friend instead. This happened last year around the time of him birthday. I wanna wish him on his birthday but i...

Soyaaa_tf

Xper 2 Age: 30

I can't find anyone else ever since the break-up, does this make me a failure in life?

The break-up happened 3 months ago (the only relationship I ever had and I failed it) and I've been unsuccessful in finding someone else. I have gone out on a couple dates but it never progressed to a relationship. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are the signs that a girl doesn't want to look desperate or overly eager?

Girl I started talking to recently tries really hard to play it cool around me, but her body language gives her away. She also takes forever to respond to my texts, which is the opposite of what I expect from someone...

jazzrecordsatnight

Xper 1 Age: 29

Marriage & Weddings

Why do girls always have to mention their husbands when no one asked?

They will find any excuse to mention they have a husband and I just find it really odd and desperate...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do your relationships work out better/last longer when the woman initiates?

I’ve noticed that in my life, whenever I’m in a dating situation, things tend to work out better for me when the woman initiates. What I mean by initiate is make the first move, i. e. introducing herself first, texting me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What would be your best ideas to wake up from a dream you don't seem to be able to wake up from?

Imagine you are sleeping and become conscious being in a dream - a lucid dream. Let's say you want it to end - but it won't. You want to wake up, but simply wanting to wake up will not wake you up. You pinch yourself - no...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I give up on ever finding love?

I'm a single 37-year-old woman with a 4-month-old baby. I wouldn't say I am attractive based on the fact that nobody has ever called me beautiful, and guys don't ever come up to me and hit on me or even ask me out. This...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, What does it mean if a guy I’ve been texting with for more than a week doesn’t come to meet me?

We’ve known each other for 2 years but started texting for about a week, he said he will try to come to my hometown to see me (we are long distance) but texted me the next day that he has to study and can’t make it to the...

Melllzz

Xper 1 Age: 28

Is avoiding texting a good approach or do women just move on if they see that the man is not constantly pursuing?

I met a woman, we hit it off but she left and lives far away, I will not see her for a month during this time I feel like its best to not text and wait for face to face conversations I feel like I would text too...

KaDooKan

Xper 5 Age: 48

Is he right for me?

So basically, as I have asked you all before about that boy (You can go and read my previous question). I don't know why he is doing with me this all things. He acts that he likes me but he don't. I can understand that...

im_btsarmy

Xper 2 Age: 22

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Any traditional women out there that can help answer my questions and concerns?

Sometimes I wish I could be a traditional woman but I'm always so afraid to do that. I don't really see the benefits. Yeah I bet the man wants that like a dog with a bone lol I know he's desperate for that shit like why...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, if you are attracted to a guy and ask him to dance, would you feel rejected if he said, "no, I would like to but I don't know how"?

I was thinking back at all the times girls I had just met and felt a connection with, would ask me to dance but I would have to say "no". Sometimes I could see it in their faces, that they felt rejected and I didn't know...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Missing a guy I fancy, what can I do to get him back talking to me?

Me and this guy I really fancy were talking and flirting. We got on the subject of people being tanned and he sent me a topless picture (from his neck down, I couldn't see his face), to show how tanned he actually goes....

Shirls12

Xper 2 Age: 41