Missing a guy I fancy, what can I do to get him back talking to me?

[Shirls12]

Me and this guy I really fancy were talking and flirting. We got on the subject of people being tanned and he sent me a topless picture (from his neck down, I couldn't see his face), to show how tanned he actually goes. When I seen it I was working at the time so didn't really look at the picture properly but messaged him back and said how do I know its you? He then replied saying not arsed if you believe me or not but clearly you think it's someone else. I tried to apologise to him and said that I was sorry for saying it, to which he then blocked me. After about two weeks he's unblocked me, I have messaged him just to say hi etc. but have had nothing back. I'm stuck for what to do and really miss our chats as well as the flirting. I haven't messaged him for a while as I don't want to seem desperate but I do really want to be in contact with him as receiving his messages makes me smile and cheers me up. Does anyone have any advice for what I could do? and do you think I probably hurt his feeling with my comment more than I thought?

[Deformate]

I can't claim to know him so I don't know how he feels but my feelings are that he wouldn't be hurt, so much as he would defensive. It may be that you hit a nerve because it might not actually be him on rhe picture and he was called out. I get how you're feeling though. I uses to know someone who always made me smile and then one day they just sort of disappeared ans I was left thinking about them for a long time afterwards, wondering how they are, if we'll ever talk about, missing the conversations. Its hard, especially if you were invested in it. It took me over a year before I realised I wasn't thinking about them as much. Still do wonder years later but it doesn't really bother me now. If they were as invested as I was, they'd come back and get in touch. I'd forgive and forget. They knew that. I hope it goes better for you though. I felt feom your message you were becoming emotionally invested and that was always a different kind of hurt for me.

[Shirls12]

I was emotionally involved for a second time as my feelings came back that I thought I had got over when we got back in touch. It does hurt not being in contact with him and I miss our chats. Maybe giving him space will work. I hope so!

[Billlewis]

I'd send him a brief, very nonchalant message, asking him how he's doing, etc.

[Iron_Man]

This is ridiculous. Why didn’t he show a face it’s immature to block

[Shirls12]

I guess he thought that because we have exchanged pictures before that I wouldn't question it. I still don't really know why I said that to him. He blocked me after I had sent him a message saying how sorry I was

[Iron_Man]

Very sensitive little man he needs to grow up

[strateguy632]

try phoning by voice like @In_Trance here.

[Shirls12]

I don't actually have his number as we agreed not to swap numbers (long story) and last time I called him on Facebook messenger he didn't answer as he was in work.

[In_Trance]

Talk to him

[Shirls12]

I've tried to talk to him through Facebook messenger, I don't have his contact number as we agreed not to swap numbers (long story).