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In my friend group, there are 2 guys that are married and they have completely different marriages.

Friend A: His wife constantly checks on him. He works from home, she works in office, and whenever she has a break, she calls to see what he’s doing. He claims that he loves it, but to me it seems like she’s always monitoring him. During my birthday party 2 years ago, she called him 4 times in a 3 hour span to see where he was at and ask if it was over. One time, we left his house and drove 15 minutes to pick up pizza. As we’re driving back, she calls to see where we’re at because in her mind it shouldn’t have taken that long. I don’t think she trusts him. She’s also forced him to change where he does his hobbies. He likes to play pool, but he can’t go to his favorite pool hall 30 minutes away. He has to go to the one 7 minutes away and be home by 9:30 pm.

Friend B: His wife never checks on him. Every time we hang out, his wife never calls or texts. For instance, the other day, he told her that he was going to play basketball with me from 8:30 to 12. He only lives 10 minutes from the court. After basketball, we went to get protein shakes and chatted until 1. A complete contrast from my other friend. He said that if he’s out late, she’ll just go to sleep and hear what he has to say in the morning. She trusts him completely.

I like Friend B’s marriage, however I wouldn’t mind a little text after let’s say 30 minutes of when I was going to be done to see what’s up. I could not do Friend A’s wife’s excessive calling.

What kind of partner would you rather have?

Okay ladies, so supposedly say if you’re in a mall or something with your man just casually spending the day together and go in a few stores there and there, you know, and stuff.

You’re just minding your business, and your boyfriend steps away for a moment or something. Here comes some random guy obnoxious as shit comes over thinking he can come get at you thinking you may want to be with him, so he comes to hit on you and Mack on you, but you tell him you have a boyfriend and you’re taken—happy taken. After that, you’re loyal and faithful in love with your man; you would never entertain or think to be bothered with any other guy, so you tend to walk away from the guy, but the guy refuses to accept it and thinks to grab your arm as such, like come here, and then your man comes over to the guy pissed and says, “Get your mothafuckin off my woman,” and scares him away to kick his ass if he ever thinks to put his hands on you again.

Then after he made the guy go away, he checks on you to check if you are okay and hug/kisses you.

He's the kind of guy who wouldn’t play about you as his woman or another man putting his hands in you physically when you made it clear you’re taken and walk away from the guy, but he tends to put his hand anyway.

How would you feel ladies if your man did this for you? Do you think it is hot when you see that?

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