Search Results: how do i break up with someone

My ex wants me to be cool with her new boyfriend. How should I deal with her?

So basically we spent 16 years together, since we were teenagers. We have a 12 YO daughter. By the end of the relationship both of us wanted out because I held on to grudges for too long and she could just bounce back...

JT017

Xper 2 Age: 37

Dating

Would an ex who I haven't talked to in years try to instigate me taking someone home who she's jealous of?

She was like "you definitely would have taken her to her place if I weren't here, it's so late. Fuck that" Basically trying to imply I would have simped. Which is an attack she's liked since I broke up with her 😂

Telekinetic-Potato

Master Age: 29

Guys, What are reasons why you would break up with someone that you love?

My boyfriend broke up with me on March 15th. He said his reason was because he felt that we were on "different life paths" and that he would like a girlfriend who is a programmer like himself. I'm trying to wrap my head...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ex text saying he was dead. need advice please?

I broke up with my ex boyfriend 8 months ago. I went no contact after that. 3 days ago he texted me at 6pm saying that he was dying soon and wanted to hear from me before he goes. I didn’t call. At 7:30pm I get a text...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Should I tell my friend the truth or not?

This dates back to Dec 21st 2022. Someone had sent her a couple pictures (walking the park in kissing positions) of her then fiance and me. She caught us at a restaurant, broke off her engagement, ripped the photos...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Am I wrong to feel like hooking up with someone bc my boyfriend did when we first were dating?

Together 6 mo now. When I first started talking to my boyfriend, I was finally ready for a relationship. Having been in my ho phase was really getting tired. After my first meeting with him, he asked if I wanted to be his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do some men get so close to my face when I show them something on my screen?

This happened to me with people I was never close to and had no rapport with, for instance class mates, coworkers etc. I would show them something on my phone or laptop and they would lean so close to my face while...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you ever been in one of these ‘clockwork’ situations (see the bold below)?

And if so, how did you escape it? This was always one of my fave old jams. Its basically where you know someone isn’t good for you but you end going back to each other over and over again. And the song goes like...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

When You’re Doing The Most

How would YOU define or differentiate between these five words— territorial, jealous, possessive, clingy, overprotective? Would you consider some, none, or all of the above to be a toxic trait? Have you or someone you...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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Is there something off with my flat mate?

When I first moved in, I got along with my flat mate John. Then a few weeks later, I decided to use a desk upstairs for work because someone had put it there for anyone to use and everyone is out of the house when I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is the nicest way to break up with someone?

I don’t wanna break his heart but I genuinely don’t see a future with him. How can I break it to him in a gentile way that I want to focus on myself.

Olivinator44

Xper 2 Age: 23

Why is my coworker trying to set me up with one of his friends? he said I need a man?

I just got out of a short relationship, about 3 months, but it’s been a week since it ended unexpectedly. I told my coworker yesterday cause he thought I was still taken and I corrected him. I come in today and he told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

After nearly 2 weeks of taking a "break", boyfriend is still undecided on what to do - advice?

Almost 2 weeks ago, he requested to take a short break so we could think without having each other around. I agreed and asked for how long. He said just a couple days. He told me he wouldn't be messing with other girls...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people tolerate too much as long as it's not infidelity (there are other things just as bad or worse than cheating)?

While infidelity is a serious violation of trust and takes over the whole relationship, what about if your partner does these other things: - Disrespectful towards your friends and family... bullies other people too - In...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Do men seek revenge for rejection?

My classmate asked me out on a date, it was his first time and mine also. I'm not sure but he liked me for around 2 years before ever asking me out and I honestly made it clear that nothing would ever happen (I never...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, would you dump your long-term girlfriend that you love to see if she is actually the one?

So, my ex broke up with me on Friday, telling me that he wants to find a partner that "is a programmer and that he can build a business with." Our mutual friend confirmed this with me as she talked to him also about it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you actually feel bad breaking up with someone?

I feel like my ex doesn't feel bad about breaking up with me or else why would he break up. We talked on facetime 10 pm till 5 am. I was just crying and upset. He said he doesn't feel heard and has a bad feeling this...

kareenakapur

Yoda Age: 29

Dating

Why do men date irresponsible broke women without careers?

Usually its the poor men who make less than 100k who only date women that make minimum wage or have absolutely no job. I know of a women without a career, doesn't work as a stripper anymore, currently does occasional...

Anonymous

(25-29)