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After my cycle ride today I called for a drink.

There was a couple about in their forties, and their dog was blocking everyone's passage.

The dog seemed to know what I was thinking, and began making a fuss over me as I tried to squeeze past, and I got the impression the dog was trying to say to me "I'm sorry I'm blocking everyone's path, but this is where my owners are sitting".

The couple could have sat out of the way, but seemed to take great delight, as people struggled past them without standing on their dog.

Are dogs more intelligent than some humans?

What is your opinion?

A subversive attack or subversive warfare is a strategy used to destroy or overthrow an established authority from within, rather than through direct military force. Instead of using tanks or missiles, subversion uses a country’s own people, institutions, and social divisions against itself.

Core Objectives
The primary goal is to erode the political, social, or economic stability of a nation until it either collapses or becomes so weak that it can be easily controlled or replaced by a regime favorable to the attacker.

Key Tactics
Psychological Warfare & Disinformation: Spreading fake news, rumors, or biased narratives to create fear, confusion, and deep distrust in the government and public institutions.
Infiltration: Placing agents or sympathizers in influential sectors—such as the media, education, or government—to subtly shift public opinion and policy over time.
Agitation: Encouraging and funding social unrest, protests, or strikes to make the country appear ungovernable.
Economic Sabotage: Undermining a nation’s currency, trade, or critical infrastructure to create hardship and public desperation.
Cyber Warfare: Disrupting digital systems to leak sensitive data or interfere with essential services like power grids or voting systems.

The Four Stages of Subversion
Based on historical models (like Yuri Bezmenov’s), this process typically follows four phases:
Demoralization: A long-term process (15–20 years) of changing a population's values so they can no longer distinguish truth from lies.
Destabilization: Weakening the economy, defense, and foreign relations over a few years.
Crisis: A short period of chaos (like a riot or economic crash) that brings the nation to its knees.
Normalization: The attacker establishes a "new normal" under their influence, often under the guise of "restoring order."
In short: Conventional war tries to break a nation; subversive war makes a nation break itself.

IMAGINE THIS SCENARIO: You and a boy have always been more than friends.. a quiet understanding, late-night talks, little gestures that blur the line. He finally says it outright and proposes something real. You care about him, but you’re not sure, so you ask for time.

That same week he goes out, drinks too much, and dials you. Your phone is already engaged with a call from another guy.. your best friend, nothing romantic, but it’s a long vent-session you don’t want to cut off. (Your guy) calls again. And again (10+ times). You see his name flash, your stomach knots, and you let it ring out because you’re not ready to face his voice right then.

He switches to text: IG, WhatsApp, short messages that get more urgent. You read them, guilt prickling, but you don’t answer. Confused and irritated, you block him everywhere like shutting a door to buy a minute of quiet.

Later the day you felt the guilt is louder than the fear. You unblock just enough to call. It rings, once, twice, and then voicemail. You wait for his call back... nothing comes.

The next day you hover over the unblock button. Part of you wants to explain: “I was on another call, I panicked.” Part of you freezes.. what if he leaves me on read? What if he says he’s done, that he’s moved on? That dread sits heavy, stealing sleep. You replay his silence, wonder if he’s already talking to someone else, feel the shame of your own avoidance.

"5 months have passed" (You were still waiting to fix) & beneath it all, another question: maybe you’re not just scared, maybe you really do need time and space to understand what you want before you try to fix what you broke.