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Hey, I have a toast to make! 🍷🥄okay now that I have your attention 🥰 I think it's time for you men to channel your inner confidence, I know it's there! and make a move when you spot that special woman who catches your eye.

Rejection? Yeah, it stings a bit, but that's just part of the game called life🫂. Remember, there's a whole world of potential connections out there, so don't let one "no" hold you back.

And let's talk tactics. While online dating has its perks, don't underestimate the power of good old-fashioned face-to-face interaction😉. There's something magical about striking up a conversation with someone in person, don't you think? So, don't be shy to put yourself out there and engage with people and Ahem "women"😏 who peak your interest.

Now, ladies, let's keep it real!😂. There's nothing quite like the thrill of being pursued by someone who knows what they want😍. It's flattering, it's exciting, and HOTTT!. There's just something irresistibly charming about a man who takes the lead... there's just something undeniably attractive about a guy who's not afraid to step up and go after what he wants! 🥵

Why do we love it so much? Well, beyond the ego boost😳, it makes us feel safe and cherished and wanted 🥰. It's also a traditional ingrained value that many of us women have been taught and believe in💓. Plus, let's be honest, even our biology says men are made to pursue women I mean 👌👈... if you know you know!.

So, fellas, don't let fear hold you back. Show that special lady why you're worth her time and attention 🥵!.

Cheers🥂 I've said my piece there's no going back for me so what are your thoughts based on the title is it true or false?

So, I've gone through post here and I've noticed that in real life women are in denial when they get rejected. They will stalk the guy, beg him to be with them and keep texting them and asking everyone what they should do to make it work. Well, if a man were doing this to them they'd call him creepy, call the police and file a restraining order. So ladies , why is it okay for you to act like this but not men.

As a matter of fact, it doesn't even have to be a dark-skinned girl, but maybe a girl who just isn't conventionally attractive or the type that your peers would want from you.

I understand that dark-skinned women aren't everyone's type. (I understand that there are studies that explicitly state that men have a natural biological attraction to lighter women predominantly.) But I also can't help but wonder sometimes if those preferences are not just natural but also nurtured or shaped socially by male peer groups.

Growing up as a dark skin girl, I remember having a lot of experiences with different men of different races being very attracted to me but almost seemingly embarrassed to be attracted to me at the same time or scared to be attracted to me in front of their family/friends. I'm wondering if one of those reasons was because they were afraid that their friends/family would have bullied or ostracized them for that.

It seems like there's this almost unwritten social mandate, largely manufactured by certain men, for men to participate in celebrating not being attracted to dark-skinned women and those men in particular also like to push this idea onto their peers as the standard/ way of thinking for success and status.

For example this attitude of: "If you date dark-skinned women, you're not successful or a loser in my eyes, get a white girl and then we can talk" type of situation.

There are also negative stereotypes about dark-skinned women being masculine, obese, unfeminine, mean, that certain men like to perpetuate further in order to pressure their friends and family into not being with a dark-skinned woman, even if dark-skinned women aren't all like these negative caricatures that they paint of them in real life.

So, as a question for the men of GAG: Have you ever been peer-pressured by your male friends into not pursuing or liking a dark-skinned girl or a girl that your friends didn't approve of?