Where can I find a secular guy?

[Anonymous]

I need to have relationship with someone. Because i can't be single. It makes me bored. I have trust issues also i need a real man who really loves me and having same ideas in the life

[SueShe]

You think that because you are going to be less bored if you are in a relationship? Well, think again. It might be different in the beginning when everything is new but after a few weeks or months, when routine has installed itself, you are going to be even more bored.

Having trust issues is not that bad because it allows you to make the right decisions. If your inner voice tells you that you should be careful, it is because your 6th. sense tells you that something is fishy.

Why can't you be single. I am single and I enjoy every single minute of it. And guess what? I am not bored because I know how to occupy myself. Why don't you join a club or take up a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests. Boredom will go away quicker than you think. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

First, you need to be realistic. The guys who will truly love you are not the guys you want. So that means you'll have to date the fuckboys. Women like guys who act degenerate. If you look at El Chapo and his gang, a lot of women wanted to be with his cartel members because they had money and were sexy bad boys. It's how women's sexuality works. Those are the guys you genuinely desire.

The guys who love you and treat you nicely will make you feel even more bored than how being single makes you feel. It's just reality. So stop lying to yourself, saying you want a man who loves and dates the guys you really like. Be honest with yourself, or you are never going to be happy.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm anti-religious and genuinely loving, but you're a bit young for me if your gag age range is accurate.

There isn't a specific place you are likely to find us, so where you look largely depends on other factors (namely your interests and hobbies).

Without your interests, hobbies, (and a picture to go by if online), you will have a hard time attracting genuine love.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

"Because i can't be single" is such an awful reason to be looking for a partner, and I say that as someone who jumped from a relationship to another.

[Asker]

I only flirt max 2 weeks i ain't good at long term relationsiops

[Finchie40]

Then why do you want a relationship if you aren’t good at long term relationships? For any relationship to work , you have to choose your partner the same way you want them to choose you , learn how to remove your inner selfishness or you won’t last in any relationship period. No relationship is perfect , so to make it work you have to prioritize your partner the same way you want them to prioritize you, it needs to go both ways or it won’t last

[Asker]

@Finchie40 there is not what i try to hide it. I would like to have relationship who has same ideas and outlooks as me. It is my own right. But i would like somebody to give a chance to me.

[RebelinSteel]

Stick to real life places, wherever you live there will be pubs, clubs, cafes, etc where you can meet people.

[Berethor]

You might find one here if you stop being anonymous, lot of non-religious guys here.

[slatyb]

Where do you live? There are a lot of them here in Seattle.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Much of the western world?

[boobliker]

try yellow pages would be my first place to look

[TheSpaceGnome]

Phone books still have dating classifieds?