Search Results: am i still on her mind

I consider using people any time you're dishonest about your intention or lie your way through to try obtain anything from that unsuspecting person.

This has already happened twice with 2 different male friends I've known for years. It was clear there wasn't anything romantic between us ever. One of tried groping me and then excusing it with an ''Oh sorry, I was just teasing'' when I removed his hands from him. Another ended up admitting in the end that he was trying to get a date from me eventually and though I would naturally changed my mind.

The groper ended up ghosting me afterwards and the other one blocked me. Needless to say I felt used. If I wanted a relationship I would make it clear from day 1, not pretend to be someone's friend and do the ''go by the natural flaw, maybe the person will change their minds eventually'' method; sound like deceiving to me.

Isn't that still using people?

So I told a 15 year old who is like a little sister to me that I would pay her bond
.. when I was at work she pissed me off.. here


here a little back story : she is a spoil brat and if she doesn't get her way she cusses u out and always wants money and she thinks I am an ATM

Well that day u know I was working and she kept blowing up my phone non damn stop saying hey sis hey sis

So In my mind everytime she says hey sis I think ok is she ok

Nah she is always asking me for money and when I told her that her mom told her to stop blowing up my phone and stop asking me for money she got all hostile with me and wanna be a damn ass spoil ass child.

She acts like she is a grown adult


This child blows up my phone literally every damn week for money especially when I am at work like that is not ok

Her mom is a single mom so I offered to help her. But eversice she literally step over that line it not been ok

This child has no discipline or anything acting like she is an adult.



So with all of that said should I still pay for her bond or no?