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I have dated probably a hundred women over the past 35 years. Most of the breakups were the civilized, "this doesn't seem to be working well for either of us" kind of break ups. A few were the embarrassing kind that bring out the worst in everyone. At least the bad break ups helped me to avoid picking such awful partners again.

The worst involved my girlfriend getting drunk, accusing me of being unfaithful with various women around the country (I was at home EVERY night and never cheated on her,) trying to snatch my phone from my hand, losing her grip and falling backwards, hitting her head on the wall, then calling police and having ME arrested for domestic violence. Typical cop bias resulted in me spending a night in jail before the prosecutor eventually decided that there was NO evidence to support any domestic violence charge and the case was dismissed. Lesson learned and I now stay away from girls who seem to drink just a little too much, too often.

Have most of your break ups been peaceful? Any horror stories to share?

I need help settling a debate with my girlfriend.

She travels a lot and mentions meeting new people all the time. Sometimes men. When she says they had a great conversation, I ask her if she mentioned having a boyfriend. She said no, why would she mention her boyfriend, that's weird.

So is it weird or not weird?

And before all the haters come out telling me she's cheating on me... just don't bother. If I believed that I would not even post.

The debate is over if it's weird to make a piont to mention in casual coversation that you have significant other or not. Like they say something about the weather. And you say something like, "Yeah, my boy/girlfriend real loves this type of weather."