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The story was told recently at my workplace. Long ago, a 3-4 year-old girl got raped, the child rapist was eventually caught and given a life-sentence.

Even though the girl later on had no recollection of that horrible event, she still suffered from anxiety and extreme shyness she couldn't explain why. She got her issues solved and proceeded to having a relationship. At some point she finds why she can't have kids and her dream of being a mother is destroyed. Her family had to sadly tell her what happened. She was very upset they kept that information from her. She became depressed. The girl's family already knew she wouldn't ever be able to have kids after they brought her to the doctor at the time but they tried to make her happy. They thought that if she didn't remember the event, she can try living a normal life at least.

If something horrible like that happened to you during your early years, you don't remember it... would you still want to know about it?

The man who wants to be in a relationship with me hasn't had a girlfriend since highschool, though he says she doesn't count since it was highschool, so id be his first real, serious girlfriend. (He's had a few small things in-between but none progressed to a relationship. I'm the first he brought home to meet his mother also ) Is it common for a man to have his first serious relationship at this age? Or is this a red flag like maybe there's a reason it's taken this long?