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First, I’d to explain my personal beliefs about God. I believe that there was once spirit (which is basically God/heaven) but there was no one to experience this heaven, so he split into both spirit and the observer (which is us) as newer souls, we need to explore life on the physical and learn lessons before ascending, and eventually be In heaven.

We are particles of God trying to return to spirit to experience heaven.

Most people who harm others are simply lost souls trying to return back home. (More explained on this later)

I also want to explain that ego can be thought of as self consciousness. Ego is not bad though. It’s simply a state of awareness.

I believe that ego can drive people to want to be in a powerful business position, this means that black people have the least ego and therefore just want to experience God. This means that in terms in jobs, they often want what’s just enough to make them happy. A person without ego would only do harm to other people if his perception of God is skewed. They know they were created by God, but lack of knowledge (like knowing we are all particles of God) can lead to confusion. For example, thinking that you are God yourself (which is true, but not in that way), thinking that other people might not exist, or thinking that the best way to find heaven is on earth. This kind of confusion can (not necessarily will) lead to devil worship. If these people are grounded though and know who other people are, it often leads to very nice and or strong people who don’t do things for themselves.

Asian people, particularly from oriental regions, have balanced the ego and the spiritual. This means that there are still motivated by a higher power, but still have some sense of self importance. Some people have applied this balance to both business and spirituality. Of course, a perception of spirituality can be skewed (as mentioned above) which can cause harm.

Serendipity: the occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way.

The woman I'm dating makes greats efforts for me to feel at ease with her. She cooks for me, and she does all kinds of things so I feel great.

But there's a problem, she's very manipulative and insecure. Like very manipulative.

She constantly criticizes me, or censors the way I say things or do things. When I try to improve them strangely she becomes even more disgusted and demanding.

It's like I can never keep up with the standards she wants, and when I try to share my thoughts about any topic I frequently feel she will criticize me and discourage me. The love I get feels conditional, and I don't feel like capable of making her happy.

This is a topic I brought to her several times, and it seems she makes efforts to fix it. But even then it is frequent, and I'm starting to get very tired of it.

Shall I stay and try to work things out, or shall I leave? How can I tell?

If you were given a chance to bring complete world peace (set aside your disbelief this is possible) but it would mean you were completely erased from existence, would you accept?

And by erased from existence, I don't mean die. I mean you don't and never did exist. There would be no afterlife as you were never born. So this isn't a sacrifice that you can gain anything from. You can't make up for any past actions or misdeeds with this noble act because you'll be complete utterly gone. Think of it as your soul, your being, your essence, the energy that makes you up being used in exchange for peace. Time would be redone so it isn't like you suddenly just disappeared. This would be you never were.

For those with children, your spouse/partner/whatever met someone else and the children were still born so no cosmic upset of reality is going to happen. Your parents had another child instead of you. There would be no other repercussions to the world beyond you no longer existing. (So no paradoxes or changes the fate of the world in some way.) And no, the other child instead of you isn't you reborn. No one would miss you or be sad or hurt or anything negative. You are completely POOF!

By complete peace, I mean total peace. No fighting, no war, no hunger, no poverty, etc. Everyone would have what the need to survive and be happy. True harmony, and a world that is perfect.