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I am part of a new friend group comprised of this guy, his cousin, best friends and their long-term partners. I really like him. I’ve only briefly met him twice. His cousin and cousin’s partner were keen to set us up, so was his best friend and his fiancé. The best friend and his fiancé still are but his cousin and his girlfriend changed their mind claiming we aren’t each others type. I was told by her to leave it at few months for a relationship. She is very obviously bullying the other girlfriends, trying to split her boyfriend from his cousin and friends etc. I honestly don’t trust her. I don’t trust she’s looking out for me.

On Saturday, his best friend and his fiancé (who I am actually now closest to) got us briefly talking. He asked me if I was single, my age (which he knew) and said ‘I’m 24 too! At 24 I feel rushed to … a relationship. How do you feel about it?’ (I can’t remember the actual word he used). He asked about my previous relationships and tried to joke around with me for a bit before cutting the convo as everyone else was putting on their coats. Before our convo, he had randomly put his hand on my shoulder twice when I was just standing beside him and made a point of loudly expressing concern about waiting for me to be collected.

My mother claims it means he’s looking a relationship and feels pressured in a good way. I took it as that. But since, I’ve started to wonder if he meant he feels like he should but it isn’t what he wants. I would like to message him but it’s not worth my time if he means he wants something casual.

What do you think he meant? Should I message him?

😭Okay so this guy I have very deep feelings for is being really weird, so before he's made it obvious that he feels the same way but then his friend told me something that made me upset because apparently he said he didn't want me being around him anymore so i started ignoring him but all of a sudden he keeps staring at me and either looking very sad or very mad and sometimes he looks very happy to see me but it all depends on what happens the day before he sees me, and for some reason his friends keep calling me his girlfriend and some of them even said that he said me and him are dating, on valentines day I was walking by and then all of a sudden his friends started to shout at me to get my attention but I acted like I couldn't hear because I wasn't in the mood I was already having a bad day at that time also, but ever since that happened everyday has been straight animosity between me and him, a lot of his friends that i didn't even know were his friends know about me and now all of them are in my business seeing what I am up to and then telling him everything, even a few I have found out follow me on social accounts and I didn't even realize Intel I really looked at the accounts and saw that they were all connected to him, so at this point I really dont know what is going on.😭😭😭😭