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then tells you something like "let's cherish these moments, cause our honeymoon stage won't last that long"?

as pessimistic as this sounds this is the brutal truth. obviously anyone who's been in a relationship knows that the honeymoon stage will not last throughout ar elationship. couples always start to fight and resent each other at least a year after the initiation of the relationship obviously I'm not saying these means they dont love each other anymore. its like what my aunt used to say...

new brooms always sweep the cleanest.

however a lot of people nowadays dont seem to understand this. they are so deeply programmed by Disney movies that they think they've finally found their prince/princess and will live happily ever after not realizing that they are just in the honeymoon stage of the relationship and they still got a long way to go,

anyways are you one of those sensitive people that would take the above to the heart?

Please be honest although I'd appreciate it if you weren't rude, I just want to see what the results are and hear some feedback from the female perspective. Essentially the point blank of it is I'm not even close to an appealing partner.

I live off less than $1000 a month before rent if I lost all my spare weight & trimmed my beard, I am MAYBE a 5 out of 10 in looks. I wouldn't say I'm ugly but saying I'm attractive is just pity or comforting flattery and I know it.

I struggle a lot with mental health & depression & have enough baggage from multiple traumatic events to fill a C-130. I'm ADHD, OCD & Bipolar and even on my best days it shows. I'm medicated & in therapy but there's limits in certain cases to how much you can change because a lot of it is chemical because my body chemistry is all messed up.

My brain often bounces between giving me way too much dopamine & not giving me any which makes it hard to keep my emotions stable. Obviously its stressful not just for me but the people who have to see it & I have problems with my speech patterns being too loud on accident even when I try not to and aware of it. I also have a robbery felony from a guy I was lied to about him being an attempted rapist. "Vigilante justice situation but she lied."

The one thing going for me is I try to be a good person & make sure to focus on my partner to make sure I meet their emotional needs not just their physical ones. In the past when I've attempted dating, I've done things like bring flowers made picnic baskets personally to go on a lunch date in the park etc. There have been times where I listened to woman cry comforting them 6 days a week from 10PM-3AM on days I was busy running off 2-4 hours of sleep for literal months.

Basically, I'm average or bellow in every way except for the fact I'll do everything I possibly can to be the best partner I can, stand up for them & make sure they feel truly loved & valued. That's it. That's what I bring to the table. Love and respect.