it happens every so often with small what I would call trivial things. These small criticisms are like a small stone slowly grinding away our relationship.
Yesterday I sent a morning text "morning baby, Have a lovely day! '
Today i send a morning text "morning have a wonderful day!"
She replies to yesterdays message with "see the difference from yesterday to today in your own message?"
Yes I did not include the word baby or an emoji but it was not done on purpose. I text with and without emojis to her all the time. Sometimes I am in more of a rush to get to work or simply forget.
If she does the same thing I don't even acknowledge it because I know there is a perfectly logical reason behind it. It isn't just here either, if i dont text back quickly enough I might receive a "you don't love me text ", in face to face conversations if i dont respond or display emotion in the exact way she wants it (eg excitement - if i am not bouncing off the walls excited) then it shows I don't care enough.
I am starting to feel like I can't do anything right, that I am becoming vigilant to my own behaviour so as to try and not set her off.
What do I do?
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How long have you two been together? This happen more often on younger couple due to some insecurities issue. But you mention she's already 34 which same as me. I feel like maybe she's in some period of time where she feels tired and exhausted either on work or any other thing that she wants your support and at the same time she can only pour her anger on you.
I dont think that's healthy for the relationship but it happens.
Or, another guess is that maybe she's already tired of you so she started picking anything she could to mess with you.
You two are actually in your 30s and fiddling with this emoji junk? Come on...
If she's really that childish she's not relationship material. Get serious...
Get rid of her.
Can you explain your reasoning?
Well she seems very insecure, she should just be grateful she’s getting those messages off you whether you add ‘baby’ or an emoji or not. How boring would it be if you texted the same message every day? If she actually knew you loved her (if you do) then a change in messages shouldn’t matter