Why did he unfollow me and unliked my stories on insta?

[Anonymous]

We have been chatting for an year. i like him and he showed interest too. He texts me usually first. One month ago he followed me on insta and liked all stories i posted. Few days ago he flirted with me and said I don’t talk to any girl except u (i know he was trying to love bomb me). but Then he said can we do sexting. I said why would i do it, I don’t like this. He said but in past u did it with me (we did sexting 5months ago but I stopped cause i felt like he was objectifying me). I told him i did cause this way i used to get your attention more. Then I said so u talk sweetly with me so u can talk dirty to me? He then said “no and i think of u as friend only. And i asked it as joke.” Then he deleted our whole chat from both sides and He immediately unliked my all stories he had liked and unfollowed me on insta and then he deactivated his ig account. After that day he has been acting cold to me. After 3 days he reactivated his account and blocked me and after few hours unblocked me. Then texted me but was trying to act like friend and called me “buddy”. Why is he acting like this now? Is he doing this on purpose or he is not interested in me now? Is he angry at me?

[Summeroflove]

People are weird and confusing but I think you know what he’s trying to get out of you is feeding his ego and sexually gratifying himself. He didn’t get what he wanted out of you so he’s bitter now.

He doesn’t want to just be friends he wants to use you and you seen it was going nowhere and that the only connection he wanted was a sexual one. You’re smart enough to see his love bombing tactics as well as him gaslighting you but he probably thought you were too dumb to see it…. Typical narcissists think people are too dumb to catch on.

I would let him go and if he comes back later trying to readd you and everything else don’t fall for it. Just leave him be people who only want to chat on the internet are using you for attention. If they’re never wanting to meet in person especially.

[jethalaal]

It's clear he is interested in you sexually. He is used to be with you now he is trying to detach himself because he feels you are not at all into him, things won't go anywhere. That's why he is trying to stay away but he is relapsing multiple times. That's why he reactivates to check on you.

[Anonymous]

In the meantime, he found someone else and he didn't want that person to notice you. Now he's alone again and you're the backup plan.

[Asker]

When did he find someone else?

[Opinion Owner]

The sexting man always has one or more backups in reserve.
This kind of dialogue is redflag, don't you know?

[Asker]

I didn’t know. But in past he made me feel used because he was sweet and acted like he care about my feelings and i agreed for sexting because i thought he likes me. But after sexting his behaviour changed towards me. And he made me cry a lot in past by ignoring me. I had glow up a month ago and he was taking interest in me but This time i lead him on for a month and then denied for sexting to get revenge. Now maybe he is angry.