Search Results: why is he contacting me

When should I break no contact?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girls, No idea what to do about my crush, pretty sure I screwed up?

kinda writing this just to get it off my chest. There’s a girl, (obviously) that I have a massive crush on. We’re both in college and share classes together. At first, I thought she was into me. I made her laugh every...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy rejected me but I don't really understand why he acted that way before?

I had a huge crush on a guy for like two years, we were college friends. He did things like walking me to the bus stop (and then running for his own bus because he was late), would get nervous around me, watched me, and...

heyhihello123

Xper 2 Age: 23

So why is he all smiles one minute then awkward and avoids eye contact the next?

There’s a new guy in my department at work. When he first started he seemed overly confident, bordering on being a bit cocky. But in our daily team meetings we kept on catching each other’s eye and looking at each other....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do we argue like a married couple?

I was in a situation with a guy for nearly a year. We’ve never dated at all mostly because he didn’t want to date me. We got along 60% of the time and other times we argued. It was really about childish, petty things that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why did my 27(M) partner become distant 27(f) female after our one year relationship?

Please bear in mind I’m an Arabian woman living in an Arabic Muslim country, and this man I admired is Muslim and comes from a more conservative Islamic background than me. Women in his family don’t work night shifts or...

Rebelhair

Xper 5 Age: 29

Guys, is it still "popular" to wait three days before calling a girl?

So... there used to be a popular theory (back in the '90s) to wait three days to call a girl. (This was pre-cellphone, pre internet, etc. when we thought giant car phones were fancy.) Does it still apply today? I ask...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Girls, Why random question from my ex during NC?

My wife divorced me 4 months ago, it was an easy breakup and during the divorce process I told her please do not contact me unless is for reconciliation, because I want to give us a chance, she was quite angry about it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shy girl doesn't say much more than hi and how are you?

I have a crush on a female coworker of mine. We're both abit shy but we regularly greet eachother, usually saying hey with a smile, maybe asking how are you. Problem is, aside from her showing interested by a warm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why is he curious about me after a year?

I was talking with him for 2 months and we went out once. Then he said he didn’t want to continue because if ”different life goals”. I said fine and went in to no contact immediately. This happened last year. We’ve been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he stop flirting and become nervous?

Hi everyone, I (34) see my physiotherapist (45-ish) every so often, and have been doing so for several years. A couple of sessions ago, I thought he was flirting with me. I like him as a person, and we get along really...

unigirl1990

Xper 4 Age: 36

Why were my boss really rude and avoided eye contact with me last week but was really nice today and made an effort to give me praise and talk to me?

So my boss spoke to me in a hard voice last week an completely avoided eye contact at a meeting but looked at everyone else but we had one on one today where he praised me a lot and he inisiatet small talk convos...

Solstraale

Xper 6 Age: 28

Why would a man who is NOT interested in a woman continue to contact her?

In terms of texting, writing letters, etc. I mean, writing nearly everyday. No flirting, although there was some before meeting. Could it be he just wants to stay friends?

Amy10223

Yoda Age: 69

A girl who gave me her contact info earlier is now ignoring all of my messages. Why?

I met this girl while I was on a holiday in Hong Kong about two weeks ago, she is a Chinese university student. We met on board a ferry, went to a ferris wheel together, and walked around for a while before she had to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I text my ex happy birthday?

Hey everyone, so My ex and I broke up a month ago because she lost feelings for me and I begged once and then left her alone after that she contacted my out of the blue sometimes and we last talked on 25 April where she...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is he passing from places he knew I would be there when he hadn’t since we broke up pass by and he suddenly started showing up again a?

we broke up and didn’t have contact for 5 months and then he suddenly passed by a place im always there at a specific time and he knows it so he passed even though he could’ve passed from another way and landed where he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why did he share this with me?

This guy and I agreed that we loved each other, years after he cut contact with me. He recently found me on reddit, where he answers all my questions, insisted to me privately that he didn’t want to reject me and he told...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, Every day since kindergarten I believed that being a girl really was made to be all better than being a boy?

Girls are more attractive and only boys ask girls out but girls always say no. I have a list of reasons why being a girl is all better than being a boy but there’s a limit in this description on how many words I can put...

Louis-Deger

Xper 5 Age: 27