Search Results: she wants to be more than friends

Someone told my close friend I like him and now he’s been avoiding me, does he not want to be my friend anymore or does he just need more time?

My male friend and I are very close and we message daily and hang out at his till early morning at least once or twice a week. We also work together so see each other a lot. I developed feelings for him a few months ago...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Need closure on the end of a friendship - thanks for your input on a VERY long post (not really a my take, sorry!)

Apologies ahead of time, for the extremely long wall of text. This is a complicated matter, that has spanned a few years - so it is impossible to write a shortened version of it. Definitely not a read, for those that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Relationships

Was I insecure? Or was she emotionally abusive?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I feel like my ex was emotionally abusive. I used to really be into her more than she was into me. She used tell me “I didn’t want this relationship, you did”. And when people would

I feel like my ex was emotionally abusive. I used to really be into her more than she was into me. She used tell me “I didn’t want this relationship, you did”. And when people would ask how we met she’d say “I didn’t wanna date him”. I explained to her how it hurts me when she says these things m. And she’d say “you’re just insecure”.

What’s even worse, she told me about how before we started dating. She went on dates with guys who she really liked and they rejected her. So am I the nice guy who finished last?

I used to be highly attracted to her. She never wanted sex with me, at the same time, complaining that her ex boyfriend didn’t want sex with her. She barely wanted to be affectionate with me.

Even worse, she used deliberately turn me on so she could sexually reject me. Would tell me “come over I’ll lick your balls and your butt” and refuse sex when I show up. Every single time we’d have an argument, even if it’s minor she’d say “you’re getting none”. So I started keeping silent to avoid conflict.

She used to complain that I’m not making her happy and give me reasons why. Which I’ll admit I’m not perfect, I know I have my flaws and bad habits, but. When I’d tell her what she’s doing to make me unhappy she’d reply “you knew I was a bitch when you met me”.

About 3 weeks ago we went to a Thanksgiving dinner at her friends house and I felt like she was kinda flirty with a guy. She seemed very touchy with him. I even saw her put her arm around him. I mentioned it to her a few days later. About how I was uncomfortable with how she behaved with him, and again. Told me “im insecure” and broke up with me. Denied ever putting her arm around him when I saw her do it.

It’s been a couple weeks and I’m still emotionally hurting over her. Haven’t been able to eat or sleep. Having nightmares and visions of her in bed with other men. I’ve dated and had sex with other women since. But I still can’t get her out of my head. What should I do?

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Guy's Behavior

He wants to still be friends but he has a passive aggressive attitude?

A few months ago an old friend reached out to me after we had a huge argument that lead to our friendship dissolving. We made amends and I accepted my mistakes I made to him, and he acknowledged his. He wanted to still...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Every time something funny happens and we laugh in group, she always looks at me, what could this be?

So, we go to classes with a same group of friends and we hang out between classes and whenever something funny happens, or something odd happens, in 90% of time we share eye contact. I like this girl and I'm pretty sure...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Tips for Christmas Preppers

If it's only October, and you've already bought a few Christmas decor items or you'd rather be prepared for the season long before the chaos starts, you're in the right place. Big retail and decor stores don't think like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Dating

Should I be friends with her?

There’s this girl who I fell for about a year and half ago. I might be an idiot but she’s the most smart, funny, kind, and loving person I’ve ever met. We both had a dark moment in our life when we met and we grew so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

There’s this girl who I fell for about a year and half ago. I might be an idiot but she’s the most smart, funny, kind, and loving person I’ve ever met. We both had a dark moment in our

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Relationships

Why does my partner accuse me of cheating?

My partner is an addict and has done a lot of bad things to me. Including lie steal And I have also been told he boasted to an ex friend reah he cheated on me which is another thing he denies. Anyways he keeps accusing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Is my friend afraid of me?

I've never really been a social or outgoing person and that caused me to misread some situations in the past but I need some help figuring this one out because it makes me uncomfortable. I (33m) became friends with C...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy pay so much attention to me if he doesn’t fancy me? He also calls me ‘mate’?

He comments on my Facebook posts a lot and watches my stories, even though I never start conversations with him and I don’t really interact with him, so why is he paying me attention? He gives me quite a lot more...

KezHarris

Yoda Age: 25

He comments on my Facebook posts a lot and watches my stories, even though I never start conversations with him and I don’t really interact with him, so why is he paying me attention?

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Dating

Should I have to decide if I want to be with him / like him romantically after the first few days/ week of dating?

got into an argument with one of my dates when he said it’s wrong that i didn’t feel the same way he did for me after the first week and that that was me “leading him on”. but i did tell him, after he declared his love...

lamuñekita

Xper 3 Age: 27

Health & Fitness

Going out at night to decompress- risky behaviour or not?

For some context, I do this more so when I am severely depressed, weather is tolerable enough and I can't seem to sleep or relax. I have plenty of friends but none that I feel close enough to confide in. Therapy feels...

PewDieCry

Xper 2 Age: 24

For some context, I do this more so when I am severely depressed, weather is tolerable enough and I can't seem to sleep or relax. I have plenty of friends but none that I feel close

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Dating

He wants to be friends?

Someone I’ve been sexually involved with for a few months and developed feelings for told me they don’t want to keep having sex with me because they know I want more and they don’t see it being more than that. I said my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Will I regret not having kids?

Me and my partner are together for more than 5 years. He is soon 30 and wants kids. I’m 25, working full time and studying for masters degree and not in a place for kids. I keep delaying it. At the beginning I said no...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

A Wise man words. do you like these? what is your opinion?

A WISE MAN ONCE SAID 1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to; 2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the...

JonesT10Apr

Xper 6 Age: 27

Dating

I felt that I was too pushy/annoying with a girl and now I feel bad?

Okay so I went on three dates with a really nice girl. We seemed to hit it off but after the third date she said that she’s not really feeling the chemistry. I responded that I agreed and respected her opinion and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Does he love me or am I just a one time thing?

I had a crush on my best friend we been friends since the age of 17 /18 I guess he knows that I had a crush on him but he never seemed to reciprocate feelings back towards me his friends keep talking about how me and my...

ZainabAli123

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean if he's flaky?

I'm really confused about my boyfriend right now and I think it's mainly work stress but I feel so undervalued and lonely in our relationship anyway. He has a good job but it has been very stressful lately and he is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I like him, but I have question marks. What would you do?

I've gotten close to a friend of mine at work, we get along well. The more we started hanging out the more I started to think of the idea that we could be more than friends.. he wanted to talk & told me he had feelings...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Do you think she will come back (please ready story, sorry for how long it is)?

A small backstory we met up for the first time and been hanging out/talking for 2 hours straight while getting ice cream and let me tell you what we had so much in common despite our energy, how we talk, and how we joke...

Jjboy500

Xper 4 Age: 23